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October 6, 2011

One last night I visited to one old my friend who was used to slanderous harm. While we had a dinner, he received  a call , the stranger person in his calling would to talk him who harmed him before. However, my friend refused for hearing. Look at my amazing face, he said : “ If i know who harmed me, what happens? Life has something we needn't to know and has somethings we need to forget.” His generosity make me impressed. Life of the human, it is hard to satisfy all our needs. If you want to become more happier, sometimes you need to decrease yourself pressure in your life. It is very necessary and one of the most perfect ways to reduced your stresses that learn how to forget .Because in life, there are somethings we need to pick up and leave down properly.

In Buddhist's book there was a story. It was told : A little Buddhist monk and an old Buddhist monk were going to cross a stream. Accidentally, they met a poor girl. She was crying because she didn't pass on the stream. The old Buddhist monk felt pitiful for the poor girl. Therefore, he piggybacked her across the stream. The girl felt very grateful for helping of old monk. She said thank you warmly and then left. The little Buddhist monk witness this scene, in his mind there were thinkings. He always wondered why his master done that. The old Buddhist monk knew the thinkings' little disciple he said: “ I only helped the girl across out the stream by my back and then she gone to a place very far by herself but you , you didn't do that but you piggybacked her with a distance over 20 miles. Do you know?”Cool

human life is a long journey. It is never stop until you aren't exist in the earth .On this road there are many things that you meet everyday, some exciting things, some sadnesses , success or  failures ...If all places we used to visit , all things we used to witness we always remember them in our mind, they will be suffered from this burdens which we pressing down. Somethings belongs to past never come back in present life. Besides remember some experiences, it is not necessary to remember anything .Willing to forget something is the best way to equal the psychology. We are willing to face to face the true of life sincerely.Cool

There is a good sentence: angry means take other wrong things to punish ourselves . Always remember and never forget some restricted things from others and finally who is harmed so much that is ourselves. Therefore, to get more happinesses  and serenities in life , we are not necessary to find who is responsibilities . There are a lot of people like some verses in a poem :“ xuân có hoa bách hợp, thu có trăng, hạ có gió mát, đông có tuyết” it can be translate : “spring has cypress flowers, summer has wind, autumn has moon, and winter has snow”. The most beautiful spring when in ourselves don't have any up set .

Remembering somethings need to remember, forgetting somethings need to forget.Always living with an opened-heart , life will become more colorful 

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08:43 AM Oct 13 2011


what astory gita

12:37 PM Oct 07 2011


Russian Federation

Anyway all bad things you will forget after some time and will remember only good things. Thank you.

05:24 AM Oct 07 2011



Hello, dear Gita.

Hope you are fine.

Nice and didactic stories you have posted here.

Golden words were said, Life has something we needn’t to know and has somethings we need to forget." Knowing this true advice we have been learning throughout our life how to do it.:)

We should remember everything good, forget bad things that somebody has done for us but never forget our mistakes that made somebody sad or miserable.

Forgetting can serves rightly when it can make somebody happier.

Live with love in your heart!

Have a beautiful weekend!