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February 15, 2008

it is ackownledged that every girl has the dream of finding her ideal Mr Right  one day.so do i.having gone through  two times failed love experiences,i still can't get the meaning of love,coz both of them lasted not long.none of them lasted for a year.i really want  to have someone loved by me and i also hope someone really and perfectly love me.but why i can't own that long?and how can i maintain a long/forever romantic relationship?

i thought deeply and i work it out.that was happened several days before.after i talked my love experience with one of my friends,i found the answer.the answer is that love is not one person's thing but it's the thing refer to two person.the course of the love experience is the exchanging of love feelings between two person and the processe of understanding of each other.

maybe i'm a little shy and sorta of  selfish girl when i'm involved in the stuff of love.when my ex-boyfriends told me that they loved me,i always acted very clumsily.it was very rarly for me to take the initialtive to express my love feelings.and sometimes i was not sensitive enough  that i couldn't figure their internal meaning of their words out.at last,i missed the chance to express myself.it's something ofen happen in two couples and it won't couse a very serious trouble.however,after such things happen again and again.someone will reach his/her limitation and become not active as they usually do.and this kind of thing also happened in my love jounery.and it coused very bad results.--breaking up.

nevertheness,i didn't realize the reason why they became some kinda of cold to me .i didn't realized it was also my wrong doing.what's wrose,i even blamed them.when our relationship got far worse,at last,i though they were not the soulmate i was trying to find out and i asked breaking up...

this is my experience.the reason why i'm wrote it is that i hope such a bad thing won't take place anymore or just happen less in our life.my friend,if u are in the love relationship now,pls remember that understanding is extramely important and expressing ur feeling towords u lover is necessary ! don't regret untill u find that u have to end a precious love jounery.

just now,i'm crazly in the love relationship with some guy,and i'll take every chance to cherish him.

remember love is the thing between two people not only one.sometimes,u should express ur love feeling to him/her.that will make ur love jounery filled with afreshment ! and that's the formula of maintaining a endless love relationship.

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12:31 AM Feb 16 2008


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