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February 23, 2008

    i think this subject is rather close to everyone's life,coz everyday we lost something.that's really a truth.  

    should we say losing is something bad?

    everything is double-edged,and it is ture of this stuff. i'll give u an example.for the same thing,breaking up with the pereson u loved,the hardest thing to accept in ur life jounery.it can be bad but also good.

    it can be a sad,even breaking-hurt thing,coz we attach much importance to the results.most people regard "no pains,no gains" as a principle of love.so they hold the view that since they have spent much time,energy and emotion feelings on this relationship,they should gain the happy ending.when they enounter the crises of romantic relationship,then break up, they feel quite frustrated.it's natural.losing someone u love is what everyone tries to avoid.and it takes time to cure the hurt.

     on the other hand,losing him/her doesn't mean that it has nothing beneficial to our life.citing the example of breaking up as well,losing him or her is not the end of the world.taking guts to face the reality is the thing what we really should do.otherwise, u'll lose more.and after u understanded this, u can find that u r wiser now,coz u know urself better and know how to face the losing.we draw the lessons from the life and obtain the experince.it's the process of our growth.

      life is full of ups and downs.every minute,we are losing something.it can be a person which is very important in ur life;it also can be something u missed,such as a smile,parents' caring,an opportunity,ect.and of course,our time is losing all the time !

      whatever we lost,we ought to confront with the losing,with an optimistic attitude.if we can't hold it,why not loose ur hand and let it go.that would not only be good for it/him/her,but it also would be a nice option for urself.

       no one knows what would happen in the future,maybe losing at this time is for the sake of gainning better results in the future !

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