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   as the saying goes,never share quarrel with ur loved one before going to bed.coz no one knows in which moment ur loved one will leave u.don't regret untill there's no chance to pitch up.

   so how to avoid quarrels,there're many ways.of thousands of measures,there's a little but useful tip for good communication.that is speaking in the positive way.

   giving suggestions to ur lover is commonplace.but whether ur partner will accept it in the pleasant way?that's would be a question.hence,we should take some skills in the mutual communication---spread the love message all the time.always progress positively.

    it's better to tell the children,"honey,u..."just say it in a positive way instead of the nagative way that we most ofen do.

   for instance,we say,"don't be so dirty",but we could say,"honey,keep yourself clean." and the word "clean" will go inside the mind instead of the word "dirty."

   it doesn't matter whether u say the "don't" or "do."it's the essence of the sentence,that's important.most people say,"don't be so dirty,""don't be so cruel," or "don't be so nasty,"this,that and the other,instead just say,"be kind,be gentle,be gracious,be graceful,"and then the essence of the words will boil down to "kind,gentle,graceful."and when everything else is gone,only the essence remains.

    change the way u speak to ur loved one right now and treasure the time u spend with them.u can find it will work out very good and everyday will be a nice day.

i thought deeply and i work it out.that was happened several days before.after i talked my love experience with one of my friends,i found the answer.the answer is that love is not one person's thing but it's the thing refer to two person.the course of the love experience is the exchanging of love feelings between two person and the processe of understanding of each other.

maybe i'm a little shy and sorta of  selfish girl when i'm involved in the stuff of love.when my ex-boyfriends told me that they loved me,i always acted very clumsily.it was very rarly for me to take the initialtive to express my love feelings.and sometimes i was not sensitive enough  that i couldn't figure their internal meaning of their words out.at last,i missed the chance to express myself.it's something ofen happen in two couples and it won't couse a very serious trouble.however,after such things happen again and again.someone will reach his/her limitation and become not active as they usually do.and this kind of thing also happened in my love jounery.and it coused very bad results.--breaking up.

nevertheness,i didn't realize the reason why they became some kinda of cold to me .i didn't realized it was also my wrong doing.what's wrose,i even blamed them.when our relationship got far worse,at last,i though they were not the soulmate i was trying to find out and i asked breaking up...

this is my experience.the reason why i'm wrote it is that i hope such a bad thing won't take place anymore or just happen less in our life.my friend,if u are in the love relationship now,pls remember that understanding is extramely important and expressing ur feeling towords u lover is necessary ! don't regret untill u find that u have to end a precious love jounery.

just now,i'm crazly in the love relationship with some guy,and i'll take every chance to cherish him.

remember love is the thing between two people not only one.sometimes,u should express ur love feeling to him/her.that will make ur love jounery filled with afreshment ! and that's the formula of maintaining a endless love relationship.