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jessica.ym

jessica.ym

China

December 8, 2007

today i came in the chatroom to chat with some people, some one say hello with me.so i replyed  him/her and we talk about simple question. such as where, old,like.

when he/she asked me a pravite question for me, i didn't reply him/her, so i told him that it was my affair.

finally,i don't know why he/she was anger and he/she attacked me with a torrent of abuse.

because i don't know how to deal with.

i should attacke him/her with the same way. at the begining i was real anger so i give him/her to the same words for him/her,but he/she spoke more and more rudely.

but i was calm in the end. maybe, i thought difference country is different culture. so although he/she still attacked me, i didn't reply to any words.

if u were me,how to deal with it.

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10:03 PM Dec 09 2007

jessica.ym

jessica.ym
China

yes, you are right. i should ignore the one.world is nice. i could meet nice people with making friend.

thanks,everyone!

08:31 AM Dec 09 2007

Amaru

Amaru
Saudi Arabia

Hi...if i were u i"ll simply ignore such a person, because it's just a wast of time. No matter how we r different & having our own cultures, we should respect each other!

u have the right not to say anything u don't want to about u'r self, it's u'r own privasy!

i'm sure u'll find nice people to chat with next time! ^_~

05:19 PM Dec 08 2007

labrooy61

labrooy61
Australia

I think the advice to add the abusive person onto your ignore list is the best.  You don't need rubbish like that on here.  We are all here to help advance to knowledge of the English language and to make friends, not cop abuse.

As has been said don't stress about it.  From my limited experience most people on here are nice and friendly. 

08:02 AM Dec 08 2007

Amz
Pakistan

 Hi, i wanna write few words, As it was a bad experience so i would like to say that forget it and don't feel stress over it . Secondly , regarding to your question , If I was you ? I think i would ask Him/Her that whats wrong with him/her? Thanks. Ammar

07:47 AM Dec 08 2007

Andruha

Andruha
Ukraine

 Better way to be calm in any situation. You souldn't to say him/her words of abuse  because it's useless waste your time and your energy. Do you need it? I think no. So add him/her to ignore list and forget
about him/her. Let you speak only with people you like and you'll have happiness ;-).

07:11 AM Dec 08 2007

lucky5260
China

 i dont know that's why ,but something i wanna say is ,if you didnt do something mistake , well, give  she/he  a breath,because if you do the same like he /she, you will be looked as if you are the one isn't magnanimous enough，because it is possible that you injurd he/she , so justdo it .