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October 26, 2007

Islam gave women rights and privileges at a time when only barbaric manners and values dominated.
Yet, some people argue th
at Islam has alienated women in some domains. In fact, this belief is a misconception. People who say so, may have read about it in a magazine or seen it on TV. A quick examination of the issues judged as unjust to women will certainly correct the misunderstanding.

Man as the head of the household:

Some people believe that a woman in Islam is regarded as inferior to man since the Quran says (what means):"Men have one degree above women." [Quran 2: 228]

 

In the Quran it also says (what means): "Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because Allaah has given the one more than the other and because men support them from their means." [Quran 4:34]

This verse implies that it is a man's duty to support his wife, and not the reverse, but this, in no way, makes him superior to her.

In fact, the rights and responsibilities of a woman are equal to those of a man but they are not necessarily identical. Since men and women are not created identical, they have different physical and emotional qualities, jobs and privileges. This does not mean that women are inferior.

On the contrary, women are considered crucial members of society in Islam since they are assigned the job of bringing up future generations. People today tend to look down at housewives but, in fact, raising children is one of the most important and difficult tasks. The way a mother brings up her child determines the way he will behave in the future. This duty, which requires patience, love, understanding and wisdom was significantly assigned to women in Islam because her nature suits this job.

Allaah The Exalted, in His Wisdom, has assigned a role for each member of the family so that there would be no arguments concerning who should do what. If a sailboat has two leaders, each will want to follow a path, leading ultimately to chaos and even a crash. In the same manner, how many times have your parents fought over some decision because each had their own point of view and wanted to apply it? This is precisely why it is preferable to have one leader for each household. However, this does not give the leader the right to be a dictator, or to neglect the role of his companion. This does not make him superior to other members of his family. It just gives him a larger duty.

Inheritance:

Some people claim that Islam is unjust towards women because it entitles them to inherit half of what men get. In fact, those people only know one side of the truth.

First, the principle of women inheriting half the money is only applicable in 45 percent of the cases. In the other 55 percent, women inherit the same amount or sometimes even more. For example, a mother and a father each inherit the sixth of their son's property when they are not the only inheritors.

In addition, the laws of inheritance in Islam are proportional to the duties of spending. Indeed, a man in Islam has the responsibility of supporting his family, his brother's children (when his brother dies), his parents (when they retire and do not have an income), his children from his previous marriage (if he has them) and his household, including his wife and children. A woman, on the other hand, does not bear this responsibility. She has the freedom to use the money she collects from her dowry or work as she pleases.

You might object here, saying that women today are working and helping their husbands pay the expenses, which entitles them to share equality with men. In fact, you should know that women's economic assistance to their husbands, which has become the norm today, is only an answer to the females’ wishes. Islam does not oblige women to spend on their households. It is a free choice many women have themselves taken today to feel more liberated, so it does not entitle them to a bigger portion of the inheritance.

Polygyny:

Polygyny is one of the most questioned principles that Islam grants men and women. Indeed, many people wrongfully accuse Islam of injustice because it allows a man to have up to four wives. Nevertheless, like every instruction in the Quran, polygyny has a reason. You see, Islam is a practical religion that acknowledges the needs and temptations of human beings and provides laws that deal with them, thus preserving harmony and morality.

- Polygyny might be the solution for a couple if the wife is barren, the husband wants children of his own and the option of separation does not appeal to both parties.

- If a woman is chronically ill and is unable to perform her marital duties. Polygyny may also be the solution when the couple does not want divorce.

- Polygyny is the religion's answer to cases where some men have excessive sexual needs that cannot be fulfilled by one wife. This in no way means that men should abuse this right and use it whenever they fancy a woman. It is rather a chance Islam has provided to prevent men from committing adultery. Many people who condemn polygyny cheat on their wives, calling this phenomenon a 'swift affair.' Islam, at least, has offered the second woman the option of being called 'a wife' rather than 'a mistress', especially in some countries where women remarkably outnumber men.

- Polygyny may settle the problem of an increased number of unmarried women, especially during wars.

However, polygyny has some limits and conditions to be met. Indeed, the Quran instructs the man to be fair with his wives on all levels, including treatment, money, house, etc. The only level where the man may have an uneven stance is the level of the feelings that he cannot control:

The Quran says (what means): "You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them [by giving her more of your time and provision] so as to leave the other hanging [i.e. neither divorced nor married]. And if you do justice, and do all that is right and fear Allaah by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allaah is Ever-Forgiving and All-Merciful." [Quran 4:129]

Finally, it is worth knowing that Islam gives a woman the right to refuse polygyny for her husband by setting it as a condition during the marriage procedures. If this condition is set, then the woman is granted divorce if her husband marries another while he is still married to her.

You might ask, why could not there be polyandry (a woman having more than one husband)? The answer is simple. Islam did not allow it because Allaah is All-Aware that it will create a problem of kinship. This means that the child may not know who is actually his father (it could be anyone of the four husbands). In addition to the psychological damage it may cause, this problem also complicates the issue of inheritance. Even birds and animals do not allow polyandry.

In fact, to understand this Quranic verse, you should see another one, related to the issue in question. It reveals the wisdom behind this concept.

http://www.islamhouse.com/p/53056 

09:30 AM Dec 15 2007

soror
Algeria

congratulations Majid.You really knew how to elucidate the Islamic principles concerning women. May God bless you for that

12:04 AM Nov 11 2007

mtdz
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

this lesson is very complite for show real islam thanks

09:53 AM Nov 07 2007

princessaly
Cote D'Ivoire

well done.good job.as a woman and muslim. i a, happy to read such wonderful sentences about women.i agree with you and i think that all african men should read this because most of the, mistreat their wives and think she is inferior.

God bless you.    

05:31 AM Nov 07 2007

warna
Morocco

jazaka laho khayran brother Majid you have really again enlightened people. the subject you have rised was well presented and well done. if you have such subject would you please send them to me by mail.once again i thank you very much and may ALLAH the Almighty strenghten you

regards

05:18 AM Oct 30 2007

akbarali
India

Really it is a very good article .

This shows the respect which we give to women , and this will Create the awareness among the people , who will thing that in islam the women is treated as equl not inferior

08:28 AM Oct 29 2007

ambitious girl
Saudi Arabia

 nice topic  ..well done ...

Allah bless you.

08:02 AM Oct 29 2007

senoic

senoic
Bosnia and Herzegovina

DEAR MY SISTERS AND BROTHERS, IT'S TRUE THAT ONLY ISLAM CAN SAVE THE WORLD OF DESTROYED.

07:48 AM Oct 29 2007

naazia

naazia
Pakistan

excellent Majid.....welldone....

keep it up

07:32 AM Oct 29 2007

mora mayden
Egypt

majid this topic is really one of the best topics in this site that if it's not the best. I really want every one to know the truth about our lovely religion " ISLAM " it doesn't mean that we're forcing people to love it but also not hate it it's a religion after all & every one should respect what other people in this world belive in . & janae >> darling , ISLAM the great religion don't need you to love or hate the belivers of ISLAM & MUSLIMS , just respect it as we respect the other religions. one more thing the heardress is to protect the girls & women every where in any time & that's need another topic to know that is for our best not to hurt us . thanks again , man.

04:29 AM Oct 29 2007

janae
Hong Kong

but to be frank,,i dont like islamic people .,.. in a word ... there is no freedom for a female need to wear headress ....

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October 15, 2007

Suppose you found a watch in the middle of the desert. What would you conclude? Would you think someone had dropped the watch? Or would you suppose that the watch came by itself?

Of course, no sane person would say the watch just happened to emerge from the sand. All the intricate working parts could not simply develop from the metals that lay buried in the earth. The watch must have a manufacturer.

If a watch tells an accurate time, we expect the manufacturer must be intelligent. Blind chance cannot produce a working watch.

But what else tells accurate time? Consider the sunrise and the sunset. Their timings are so strictly regulated that scientists can publish in advance the sunrise and sunset times in your daily newspapers. But who regulated the timings of sunrise and sunset? If a watch cannot work without an intelligent maker, how can the sun appear to rise and set with such clockwork regularity? Could this occur by itself?

Consider also that we benefit from the sun only because it remains at a safe distance from the earth. A distance that averages 93 million miles. If it got much closer, the earth would burn up. And if it got too far away, the earth would turn into an icy planet making human life here impossible. Who decided in advance that this was the right distance? Could it just happen by chance?

Without the sun, plants would not grow. Then animals and humans would starve. Did the sun just decide to be there for us?

We need to experience sunrise. We need the sun’s energy and its light to see our way during the day. But we also need sunset. We need a break for the heat, we need the cool of the night and we need the lights to go out so we may sleep. Who regulated this process to provide what we need?

Moreover, if we had only the warmth of the sun and the protection of the atmosphere we would want something more beauty. Our clothes provide warmth and protection, yet we design them also to look beautiful. Knowing our need for beauty, the designer of the sunrise and the sunset also made the view of them to be simply breathtaking.

The Creator who gave us light, energy, protection and beauty deserves our thanks. Yet some people insist that He does not exist. What would they think if they found a watch in the desert? An accurate, working watch? A beautifully designed watch? Would they not conclude that there does exist a watchmaker, One who appreciates beauty? Such is God who made us.

http://www.islamhouse.com/p/53532

10:37 AM Nov 16 2007

mmemoo

mmemoo
Germany

interesting

01:38 AM Nov 12 2007

jiangly

jiangly
China

Really a good lesson!

It's a good prove of the existence of God.

but there is a problem: If there are a group of people who are born to be taught that the watch can  be grown up from the sand,and the sand come out from the earth,and the earth come from the universe and the universe come from nothing.

02:54 AM Nov 09 2007

pplay
Myanmar

  Great Idea ..

 i think that is soooooo  Goooooood..

   May the God who create the sun bless ya..

  philip

05:20 AM Oct 22 2007

dodo3
Morocco

If i find a watch in the sand  i will believe that the watch has came from a plan..why not?

04:40 AM Oct 22 2007

rabahb

rabahb
Algeria

 if i find a watch in the sand i take it.

11:30 AM Oct 21 2007

bu_manneh
Gambia

hello are you

03:01 AM Oct 21 2007

redwana

redwana
Egypt

how we r the sons and doughters od the nature...soo who is the father of the nature???

u know that rule ''the energy or the power never vanished  and never come from neverlessness''

its true the nergy never come from nothing....

who is the first person came on the earth ..how did he came...?

if the nature created us..thats mean theres no chice for us in this world....hahaha...we destroy the nature now...the nature is being destroyed...dangeroulsely..

how the poor people get their rights back....? 

01:33 AM Oct 21 2007

parfait111

parfait111
France

yeah it's a good idea, if some find a watch in a desert he will conclude that has droped from someone, he will think thant he is not the first human walking  through this place, thank you.

12:39 AM Oct 21 2007

monline
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

If I find watch in the sand ,I try find owner

09:27 PM Oct 20 2007

Farinaz
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

Everything around us is a symbol which tells us that it can not create accidentally , I wonder how some people can deny God .

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October 15, 2007

Suppose you found a watch in the middle of the desert. What would you conclude? Would you think someone had dropped the watch? Or would you suppose that the watch came by itself?

Of course, no sane person would say the watch just happened to emerge from the sand. All the intricate working parts could not simply develop from the metals that lay buried in the earth. The watch must have a manufacturer.

If a watch tells an accurate time, we expect the manufacturer must be intelligent. Blind chance cannot produce a working watch.

But what else tells accurate time? Consider the sunrise and the sunset. Their timings are so strictly regulated that scientists can publish in advance the sunrise and sunset times in your daily newspapers. But who regulated the timings of sunrise and sunset? If a watch cannot work without an intelligent maker, how can the sun appear to rise and set with such clockwork regularity? Could this occur by itself?

Consider also that we benefit from the sun only because it remains at a safe distance from the earth. A distance that averages 93 million miles. If it got much closer, the earth would burn up. And if it got too far away, the earth would turn into an icy planet making human life here impossible. Who decided in advance that this was the right distance? Could it just happen by chance?

Without the sun, plants would not grow. Then animals and humans would starve. Did the sun just decide to be there for us?

We need to experience sunrise. We need the sun’s energy and its light to see our way during the day. But we also need sunset. We need a break for the heat, we need the cool of the night and we need the lights to go out so we may sleep. Who regulated this process to provide what we need?

Moreover, if we had only the warmth of the sun and the protection of the atmosphere we would want something more beauty. Our clothes provide warmth and protection, yet we design them also to look beautiful. Knowing our need for beauty, the designer of the sunrise and the sunset also made the view of them to be simply breathtaking.

The Creator who gave us light, energy, protection and beauty deserves our thanks. Yet some people insist that He does not exist. What would they think if they found a watch in the desert? An accurate, working watch? A beautifully designed watch? Would they not conclude that there does exist a watchmaker, One who appreciates beauty? Such is God who made us.

http://www.islamhouse.com/p/53532