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reemona

Oman

Love from first Chat!

June 12, 2010

Love from Chat!

Hi,I've never seen any one talk about it but, today I'll.

It's time for me to expose the topic that always bothered me.

Whenever I enter the chat room in Ebaby I just do it 2 chat or to improve English, which sometimes I use as an excuse to chat ^-^.

My issue is that sometimes after 5 minutes of fun chat with someone I really think of him as a good friend.

But then, it's the moment of truth.He starts to call me names like honey, dear and my sweety. I have no problem with that but, the shocking is he sys I LOVE YA !!

You can't love me we only talked five minutes ago!!I get really confused, "do u mean u love to be my friend??"He sys no I can't live with out u and …bla b la bla.

Let me tell u something, we've all heard of love from first look.But, have u heard of love from first chat??In my view, I seriously don't call that love.I call it admiration but, sometimes people can't separate between them.

Then I feel really bad Coz I lost an anticipated friend and because I might be crashed his feelings when I said NO.

That's all what I wanted to say and I really want to read your comments.
Coz I'm sure this happened with u!

REEMONA^-^

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02:44 AM Jul 01 2010
weah44 Sudan	yes exactly what did you say is completely true and i am with you in this ponit, in addtion i am boy when i enter chat and want to do some pracitice he start ask me are you boy or girle ? if i reply i am boy he will end the conversion !!!!

02:44 AM Jul 01 2010

weah44
Sudan

yes exactly what did you say is completely true and i am with you in this ponit, in addtion i am boy when i enter chat and want to do some pracitice he start ask me are you boy or girle ? if i reply i am boy he will end the conversion !!!!

07:58 AM Jun 13 2010
reemona Oman	u are so right I don't have cam too hehehe, thanx 4 comment

07:58 AM Jun 13 2010

reemona
Oman

u are so right

I don't have cam too

hehehe, thanx 4 comment

07:29 AM Jun 13 2010
shady0118 China	it is very difficult to find a true friend on the internet.you problem is really common.and there are also many bad people.they love to do something bad on the cam........luckily.i dont have cam .ha p.s your english is really excellent

07:29 AM Jun 13 2010

shady0118
China

it is very difficult to find a true friend on the internet.you problem is really common.and there are also many bad people.they love to do something bad on the cam........luckily.i dont have cam .ha

p.s your english is really excellent

06:06 AM Jun 13 2010
riad42 Austria	I think women like to hear nice stuff even when knowing it´s not true. Men find such praise rather ridiculous. But the result for both is the same at the end of the day...I guess it depends who is more patient to play for a longer time... Each one has own opportunistic ideas in mind...

06:06 AM Jun 13 2010

riad42
Austria

I think women like to hear nice stuff even when knowing it´s not true. Men find such praise rather ridiculous. But the result for both is the same at the end of the day...I guess it depends who is more patient to play for a longer time... Each one has own opportunistic ideas in mind...

04:33 AM Jun 13 2010
reemona Oman	hi, yea I know they are plaing and tha annoys me. I'm carefull with them don't worry. thank u for ur comment my friend.

04:33 AM Jun 13 2010

reemona
Oman

hi,

yea I know they are plaing and tha annoys me.

I'm carefull with them don't worry.

thank u for ur comment my friend.

04:13 AM Jun 13 2010
I am the legend United Arab Emirates	Goood Day Reeem i am going to write comment on your blog your rright the pepoles in the world they are just playing infaact they make toy from girls to say so easy that i love you the 2nd i naver heard to fall in love from 1st chat nd i am sure they are only playing with your emotions becarefull from boys this is my advice for you May Allah Blesss you Dr. Muhammad

04:13 AM Jun 13 2010

I am the legend
United Arab Emirates

Goood Day Reeem i am going to write comment on your blog your rright the pepoles in the world they are just playing infaact they make toy from girls to say so easy that i love you the 2nd i naver heard to fall in love from 1st chat nd i am sure they are only playing with your emotions becarefull from boys this is my advice for you

May Allah Blesss you

Dr. Muhammad

03:41 AM Jun 13 2010
reemona Oman	I agree with both of you but I think men do it in more rude way thanx again

03:41 AM Jun 13 2010

reemona
Oman

I agree with both of you

but I think men do it in more rude way

thanx again

03:41 AM Jun 13 2010
reemona Oman	I agree with both of you but I think men do it in more rude way thanx again

03:41 AM Jun 13 2010

reemona
Oman

I agree with both of you

but I think men do it in more rude way

thanx again

12:36 AM Jun 13 2010
riad42 Austria	I agree with Eric. We talk about insincere men all the time, but what about the women? Too many women here looking for quick love just to go to a certain country. Is it because of the looks, sex, vacation.... But they are not being attacked for being unsincere! What about the spam mail we get loads of it everyday. Are these women different from the insincere ones in a chat? And what is a insincere man or woman? I made the exprience when especially young women admire the looks of a man, they want him right away. Just look at the comments on the profiles. Hugs and love etc... towards men who sent them a friend request!! I say women are not more or less sincere than men. They just ( typical) love to make it seem this way :-) Are opportunists not insincere?

12:36 AM Jun 13 2010

riad42
Austria

I agree with Eric. We talk about insincere men all the time, but what about the women? Too many women here looking for quick love just to go to a certain country. Is it because of the looks, sex, vacation.... But they are not being attacked for being unsincere! What about the spam mail we get loads of it everyday. Are these women different from the insincere ones in a chat? And what is a insincere man or woman? I made the exprience when especially young women admire the looks of a man, they want him right away. Just look at the comments on the profiles. Hugs and love etc... towards men who sent them a friend request!! I say women are not more or less sincere than men. They just ( typical) love to make it seem this way :-) Are opportunists not insincere?

11:26 PM Jun 12 2010
reemona Oman	Hi Eric,Thanx for your comment. Well, about your friend you should be careful when making decisions. And be careful with her u don't want any troubles!Anyway, thanx again.

11:26 PM Jun 12 2010

reemona
Oman

Hi Eric,Thanx for your comment.

Well, about your friend you should be careful when making decisions.

And be careful with her u don't want any troubles!Anyway, thanx again.

08:43 PM Jun 12 2010
zhjw752@163.com China	Hello, Reemona, Eric here. I have same experiences as you. I think this things is normal,May be some guys like joking. I chat with girl here one day. and we see each othe by webcam. She said she love me and she learn our language now. she will be with me someday. May be we have different culture. I think her idea is crazy.

08:43 PM Jun 12 2010

zhjw752@163.com
China

Hello, Reemona, Eric here. I have same experiences as you. I think this things is normal,May be some guys like joking.

I chat with girl here one day. and we see each othe by webcam. She said she love me and she learn our language now. she will be with me someday. May be we have different culture. I think her idea is crazy.

11:22 AM Jun 12 2010
reemona Oman	Hi viona, thanx 4 your comment. and trust me, I'm really good at closing chat windows.. and I know what u mean.. thanx my friend, I love u too dear.

11:22 AM Jun 12 2010

reemona
Oman

Hi viona, thanx 4 your comment.

and trust me, I'm really good at closing chat windows..

and I know what u mean..

thanx my friend,

I love u too dear.

10:27 AM Jun 12 2010
viona helena Indonesia	Wow,Reem, You know what,i never go to chat room anymore. I just went there several times,when i just became new member of ebaby. Yeah,i must confess that i had several friends who became my best friend and still keep in touch with me til' today. But,,, What a pity that they were too many bad guys there. So,as a girl,,we must be carefull ;) Of course,we just want to improve our english,but.. To be carefull is a must! Ok? And,i think they talked about love was just to get closer to you as a new friend. It's ok dear :) you don't have to be worry abt that,i think.. But,make sure to close the window's chat if they are start talking naughty. Yeah,you know what i mean don't you? :D And,my last word for you now,is,, I LOVE YOU,REEM! :D hehehe ;P

10:27 AM Jun 12 2010

viona helena
Indonesia

Wow,Reem, You know what,i never go to chat room anymore. I just went there several times,when i just became new member of ebaby. Yeah,i must confess that i had several friends who became my best friend and still keep in touch with me til' today. But,,, What a pity that they were too many bad guys there. So,as a girl,,we must be carefull ;) Of course,we just want to improve our english,but.. To be carefull is a must! Ok? And,i think they talked about love was just to get closer to you as a new friend. It's ok dear :) you don't have to be worry abt that,i think.. But,make sure to close the window's chat if they are start talking naughty. Yeah,you know what i mean don't you? :D And,my last word for you now,is,, I LOVE YOU,REEM! :D hehehe ;P

06:32 AM Jun 12 2010
riad42 Austria	Have a nice day too

06:32 AM Jun 12 2010

riad42
Austria

Have a nice day too

03:59 AM Jun 12 2010
reemona Oman

03:59 AM Jun 12 2010

reemona
Oman

03:53 AM Jun 12 2010
riad42 Austria	WOHOOO :-)) You are perfect :-))

03:53 AM Jun 12 2010

riad42
Austria

WOHOOO :-)) You are perfect :-))

03:35 AM Jun 12 2010
reemona Oman	Hehehe I'm sorry riad

03:35 AM Jun 12 2010

reemona
Oman

Hehehe I'm sorry riad

03:32 AM Jun 12 2010
riad42 Austria	I see you are improving :-) My name is not correct yet, but much better than in your first post ;-)

03:32 AM Jun 12 2010

riad42
Austria

I see you are improving :-) My name is not correct yet, but much better than in your first post ;-)

03:24 AM Jun 12 2010
reemona Oman	Thank u again raid 4 sharing your opinion ^-^Will, I believe every one had his experience.

03:24 AM Jun 12 2010

reemona
Oman

Thank u again raid 4 sharing your opinion ^-^Will, I believe every one had his experience.

03:14 AM Jun 12 2010
riad42 Austria	Not to worry dear (lol), i have understood the meaning of your blog at first sight ;-) I just tried to explain generally when people using these words, is it either because of the personality or the pic. But after 5 minutes, it can´t be neither of them.

03:14 AM Jun 12 2010

riad42
Austria

Not to worry dear (lol), i have understood the meaning of your blog at first sight ;-)

I just tried to explain generally when people using these words, is it either because of the personality or the pic. But after 5 minutes, it can´t be neither of them.

03:08 AM Jun 12 2010
reemona Oman	Hi, thank you all 4 your comments. raido I understand what you are saying and let me make my blog more clear to you. by admiration I ment he\she is admired of my personality not the picture. I know it's not my picture but, what doese that got to do with my blog?? any way, sayng dear and whatever I'm oky with that and I understand that these words strengthes our frniendship. what I don't like that in the end they say: I love you. I hope you know understand my purpose of this blog. thanks again.

03:08 AM Jun 12 2010

reemona
Oman

Hi, thank you all 4 your comments.

raido I understand what you are saying and let me make my blog more clear to you.

by admiration I ment he\she is admired of my personality not the picture. I know it's not my picture but, what doese that got to do with my blog??

any way, sayng dear and whatever I'm oky with that and I understand that these words strengthes our frniendship.

what I don't like that in the end they say: I love you.

I hope you know understand my purpose of this blog.

thanks again.

02:58 AM Jun 12 2010
the best killer Saudi Arabia	nice topic to speak about it and every single word that you said its truh and there are a lot of people who are doing that but what we can do for them.

02:58 AM Jun 12 2010

the best killer
Saudi Arabia

nice topic to speak about it and every single word that you said its truh and there are a lot of people who are doing that but what we can do for them.

02:41 AM Jun 12 2010
riad42 Austria	Saying "i lov ya" at first chat is definitely no admiration of the soul. Looking at your profile pic which obviously is not you, can´t be called admiration of any kind when saying " i lov ya" after 5 minutes. Calling someone dear, can be ment nicely and respectful. It depends ofcourse on the chater and your opinion of him/her. When i see that a person is nice and chating in a logical way, then i dont mind calling this person dear. But in this case it doesnt mean anything but respect. It can though be used in a sarcastic way as well. Dear...honey...sweety... can be used to show either real passion (close and meaningful friendship), sarcasm, having a dirty mind, or being a macho. Saying " i lov ya" at first chat, reminds of spam mail.

02:41 AM Jun 12 2010

riad42
Austria

Saying "i lov ya" at first chat is definitely no admiration of the soul. Looking at your profile pic which obviously is not you, can´t be called admiration of any kind when saying " i lov ya" after 5 minutes. Calling someone dear, can be ment nicely and respectful. It depends ofcourse on the chater and your opinion of him/her. When i see that a person is nice and chating in a logical way, then i dont mind calling this person dear. But in this case it doesnt mean anything but respect. It can though be used in a sarcastic way as well. Dear...honey...sweety... can be used to show either real passion (close and meaningful friendship), sarcasm, having a dirty mind, or being a macho. Saying " i lov ya" at first chat, reminds of spam mail.

02:25 AM Jun 12 2010
youthcrewkid Philippines	well said, reemona! :)

02:25 AM Jun 12 2010

youthcrewkid
Philippines

well said, reemona! :)

01:55 AM Jun 12 2010
almosai Yemen	hahahaha you'r right , but what do we do with ourselfs?

01:55 AM Jun 12 2010

almosai
Yemen

hahahaha

you'r right , but what do we do with ourselfs?

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