From BLUEKING

    Being understood is a quite diffucult thing.I always remember this saying in my country. No matter how much you know, you can only know as much as one who speak with you.Moreover, words that are percieved are generally weak, some of which is quite straightforward and, spoken from the bottom of heart. 
 
      Of course, does not only this problem belong to me, but also everybody must take this issue serious.This article is not meant to clarify how we have a good communication.You can easly find a bunch of technical essays on the topic in ask. Althoght we accept that it must be a sine qua non for a good relation, at this writing, it will be wonderful to make our mind refresh about this issue.

      Last week, I run into one of my friends and then he started chatting like a non-stop talk.Oh my God,All I could do  made a plan to see his mouth shut up. Rather than a dialogue, it was just a trisome monologue. Oncely, I read a book that explain how we perfectly make friend.As long as I remember, Listening is more significant than good speaking according to this book.Leaving aside speaking without a comma and full stop,we have to give a chance for our interlocuter opening his mouth.Hence,if wanted to be appreceiated,we all have to be unimous in listening to each other.

     Maybe,grasping what people tell is more than words.It must be related on education,culture,history,behaviour,mimic,gender and etc.There are a large number of parameters we have to pay attention.In fact, something shouldn't been underestimated at all and also never exaggerated a lot. It can be said that the proplem is just for listener if we use a kind of clear and smooth language.That's right,why not if we are enought to perfectly convey the information and messages in our head to the avarege people at least.

      As to communication beetween the genders, we guys have to accept in advance that we should be a listeneer. A woman speak 35 thousand words a day.Can you guess how many words a man speak a day ? It is only about 10 thousand words a day. A man's brain is just working on the result, being in easy,clear and direct ways.However, women look at events deeply, and focus detailed things.They have got a wonderful memory in comparision of our very own.Yes,a man has to be a good listeener just beacuse of this differences I mentioned!

      It is so hard to spearate out them, being an orator or a good listener. Which one of them is more important, making the audience understood, or trying to understand by carefully listening.If you want me to select one of them by taking the trend of society and its problems into consideration, the latter is certainly my choice.

   Separation always plays its painful role while time pass. It is wonderful to be able to forget somethings giving us sorrow when we recall them.Eradicating bad and trivial events on the brain must be taken as a medical present.On the other hand,what about the cheerful,enjoyable and positive memories?

   We can easly consume beautiful things.with hectic days in modern life, We only endeavour to satisfy ourselves and fulfill what we need.By making emphasis on a kind of benefit or let us call it such a slippery pragmatism, we resort to organizing our valuable life.Notwithstanding making this bustling life slow down, we pitilessly accelerate it.The more we have got alternative communication machines,the more we are deeply in the anti-social life.

   Right now , I think my sentimental side appear in the face of you. Shortly, What I want to tell is that I miss my old friends even coming from my childhood. I frankly guess you my friend also miss me,let alone the possibility of getting a unilateral feeling,longing for.However, why am I not able to hear anything and read any words from you? İf you find me staying aloof from you, why dont you make any effort and use your willpower on me.You have got a finger that is capable to write and a mouth that is able to tell. It would be an indescribable bliss for me if you let me know you are alive and in health with even one line by writing.

  There is a proverb. It is out of sight and then it is out of heart.Additionally, blaming somebody else is absolutely not a true way.İf we dont keep in contact with anyone, sooner or later we come to the dreadful occurance, forgeting all of beautiful memories between two beloved people.Brothers,sisters and my lovely friends,opprotinity isnt a wrong thing as long as someone doesnt feel to be took advantage.After noticing this problems, we have to find a unifiying way to motivate friendship.For those who is related with english and want it to make pogress,there is no need to find a common interest.

  I will write what I think and feel in english as I have said before. You can find my sutiation in the life among my articles.Pls make sure you are not only one to get any time. It is absolutely not peculiar to you and ones you get in touch with.You know we can give a few minutues a week or even a month.That's simply because It's worth going on this marvellous relation for improving the language and surely in favour of companionship.

  Every beauty wants to be presented to its fans. For this reason,rather than earning money, Painters, musicians,artists are eager to show their art products. They take part in a lot of exhibitions.

    we human being have got two basic sections, which generally manage what we do.One of them is absolutely our brain. We decide all of things by means of our brain.Secondly, we have got the center of our feelings.Our heart prevent us from being as a robot. Could we be such a human if we deleted our thoughts and feelings?

   I sometimes wonder what other gender think and why they behave like this.I do not regard myself as Ahmet Altan who is considered to be the best writer understanding women in my country.Huh,Actually, beside reading some of his novels, I have got my own ideas.For instance, oncely, I asked my friend why you make up.The response was that making up and jewelleries were just for herself,self-esteem.If we ignored chromosomes, maybe, she would be totally all right.

   The cricitic question is to be where should be the center of gravity.we never forget that excessiveness can drift us out of human being.
In history, there are a lot of disastrous events related with merely being a slave of mental thoughs or vice versa.We can thankfully contemplate how it can be true to obey the requires of our feelings or desires coming from creation at all. Without compassion ,love,ethic values and etc, can we beleive ourselves to take a true way? However, without doupt, supressing what we feel can make us physical and spiritual patient.

  The asnwer is to be able to build a blance between heart and brain. It is a diffucult, but at the same time , pure clear way.Moderating our demand and choosing a modest way keep us happy and satisfied. when we remember our old occurances, it will not let us down.I dont know what you do. I am trying to remind myself of finding the middle point between my precious two things. It always needs to refresh this rule at every decisions and attitudes.