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January 18, 2014

Morning!

Hey, this is my second blog entry. Lets just hope i can keep this "blogging spirit " alive. 

So, i watched a video on Youtube. It is a very short mandarin video on emotional management. Well, it didn't really talk much on how one can manage their temper or emotions. Instead, the video told a short story about a boy who always so grumpy and hot-tempered. 

So, there is this little boy who always get angry so easily. One day, her mum gave him a sack of nails. Her mum told him to hammer a nail on the wooden fence at the backyard everytime he feels angry. At the beginning, this little boys had already hammered 28 nails. As time goes by, the nails in the sack became less. Little boy thought he had finally managed his temper. He quickly told his mum. 

This time, little boy's mum said,  "Everytime you successed in controlling your temper, pull out a nail." Time passes. The little came to his mum and told his mum that he had finally pulled out all the nails. 

The mum gently told his son, "Son, look at all the holes on the wooden fences. They will never go back to how they used to look like. Same applied with all the words came out from your mouth when you are angry. These words will leave a scar in their heart that will never heal. 

Remember: Whenever you have a tantrum, dont speak and walk away from the scene or you can take a deep breath or scream out loud to vent your discontent. After that, go back there and continue to strive for success. 

09:35 AM Apr 01 2014

hsbakhtiari
Iran, Islamic Republic Of

speaking of anger and the words we say when we are angry, Molana says qoute that :

a word come out from the mouth is like an arrow has released from a bow. the arrow is under as long as you haven't released it. but as soon as you shoot it, you can't control it. a person is shot as a result of your action but you just released an arrow. The nature rules make that person pass out but finally you are the only one to blame.

so be carefull about whatever you say!

09:37 AM Jan 18 2014

ola33

ola33
Japan

Ignoring, rejection, isolation is a bad punishment. I don't like the word "deserve" but here I'll say no body derserve that, no matter what he/she has done!

06:43 AM Jan 18 2014

madelineming89
Malaysia

Ola, you are right. Someone who always up in the arms about a trivial matter, sooner or later, he or she will get igonored and rejected by people aroudn him/her..

06:30 AM Jan 18 2014

ola33

ola33
Japan

I'm like a fence that has holes but they're being patched pretty shortly. I just can't be grumpy and sulky when someone had a tantrum and couldn't control himself. I just want to help that person since it was the reason for him to behave like that. We're all humans, so let's cut some slack. But it's not encouragement for this kind of trantrum behaviour. It's bad, not for the affected ones but for the person himself who will be rejected and ignored by the society after and  that I don't understand. I think it's not human to ignore someone. It tells also what kind of person it is when he ignores someone or turns a cold shoulder. It's not right.

More entries: Emotional Management (4), My First Blog Entry

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