Love is love.

Irene, I think about this story in this way- you were together and you had something sacred together – nice memory, melody, stories, flowers – anything that made you lovely and happy. I think these things should stay only with those two of you! If a boy loved her, he wouldn’t even mention those attributes as they would only hurt him. That’s one thing.
Another thing that really surprises and is sort illogic. If a boy still loves his ex girlfriend, how can he marry another one. What’s about another girl’s felling. Her feelings are hurt too. So unintetially, we have two girls whose fellings are being hurt by the same boy.
He’s not a simple boy, he’s a Casanova :) who’s playing games.
About accepting an invitation. I think it’s ok, even if she still loves him. If she loves him and it didn’t work out, she would only wishe him the best of him finding a new “love” but using the things of their love, it would only brings her pain.

Marwan, I wish you to comprehend love.

Olya, reading this story, we can think, that the the guy’s ex-girlfriend was invited to the wedding. I think, he wanted to show her that he still loves her. I am not sure if he ex loves him, because she accepted his invitation. If I loved a man, I would never go to his wedding. So no feelings from the ex besides jealousy that can be to a man she doesn’t love but still thinks he is her belonging. IMHO

Irene, so the woman must have reminded him hig ex-girlfriend. Well, a man in love can be forgiven anything. The thing is he’s got the feeling and makes others happy. But the girl who refused him, she must be loving him too as it touched her feelings seeing him with another using some attributes of their former love. If she was indifferent, she wouldn’t care about it. All complicated.
To my chagrin, didn’t read Lolita, but know what’s the book is about.

Olya, it’s clear that the girl refused him to marry.
Very often men search for women they look like those who they fell in love before and can’t forget.
What about “Lolita” by Nabokov? Humbert fell in love with a girl in his childhood and couldn’t forget her. That’s why he fell is love with Lolita, who reminded him his ex-love.He died still loving her.