loretta0808
China
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Recently, i am completely lost and confused! maybe my trouble seems to be stupid, but it has and will continue to trouble me, i really need help. i have a boyfriend who i met him on the internet about four years ago. We chated each other just like friends, but at that time all of my roommates had boyfriends, so they persuaded me to look for a boyfriend…. so i decided to let him act as my boyfriend without consideration. because i think he is very kind, and i just wanted a boyfriend and i never think what will happen later. Then he became my boyfriend, but i was in wuhan, he was in jiangsu, so everyday we talked and met through telephone and QQ. Gradually, i was to be mature, i knowed i don't love him, but i don't know how to tell him, i was afraid i will hurt him. So we continued to keep this relationship. Four years later i graduated. i came to jiangsu to keep my promise. i know he loves me, though i don't love him, but i never betray him. Several months later, i found a job as project assistant. In this company, i made a lot of new friends. Because we were all young and just graduated from college, we often joined in activities together, had dinners and went to KTV together. Gradually, i found a boy among them loveed me, i declined him without any consideration…... we are be friend again. But my boyfriend hated me having dinners or playing with my colleagues. Every time, i would quarrel with him about this matter. i was very tired of quarrelling with him. I didn't know why, but I knew he hope i am stay at home with him all the time, but it was impossible for me to stay at home all along. i needed to make new friends, i needed to join in kinds of activities. So many times i wanted to tell him if he always quarreled with me about this matter. i think we'd better break our relationship. but at last i gave up and closed my mouth. So my biggest trouble is:how to deal with this relationship between my boyfriend and me? should i break this relationship, because i don't love him, maybe just like him? Thank you in advance!
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