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Dear Luzma, Thanks for asking onestly the real question,a lot people face such problems but men don't admit they have some problem though every male wants to increase their sexual power,that's why a lot 'viagra' is sold in the market. & a lot sex toys are sold to make to get satisfaction but it don't happen at all. You have said rightly that I I am not doctor of sex.I am just an ordinary man who has some experiences about it wish to share with others so that someone may get some benefit out of it. I feel that the problem you have told is a result of psychological disorder. There are some existential phenominas which we have to understand before we discuss something about the problem itself. Hard facts about males are…. 1.Every male is eager to pnetrate. 2.Every male don't want end the sexual act very soon. 3.Every male wants to give orgsimic experience to woman. 4.Every male gets disappionted after discharge. But No man wants to admit that he has some problem,if someone want ask he want to ask in some privacy alone. Males have the feeling that it is sexual act need power to satisfy woman hence he tries maximum to show & collect the whole power through medicunes & otherstuffs. Some other facts are that, For successful sexual act ,it is not 'power of sex'it is control of using sexual excitemet,which makes the act complete & beautiful. When a man leaves the woman dis-satisfied,it creates a 'black spot'over the face of male.He feels that he has lost every thing & wants to committ suicide. & a male when feels lost for once,the situation creates fear in him & man looses his confidence & man starts feeling that he is impotent,he starts escaping from sex & conflicts starts within bucause the urge to go in sex does not allow him to be comfortable & he tries to find another chance with some another woman in the hope of 'successful encounter'. & if he receives the repeated experience it makes him to feel permanent impotent. There are other factors too… Like the environment in which one grows….... Existence don't recognise our religions,moralties,social setups,governmental powers,educations ,employments & all about what we evaluate too much but it moves according his own priciples. But man has created a lot stuffs that want to surpass & direct the existential phenominas,which creates conflicts. Ours religions,social & political structures have destroyed our existential life too much. It is all the result of that. (To be conluded)
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