I notice there are a lot of argue about Islamic polygamy What is the benefit of this rule Let me tell you first that I hate polygamy and every Muslim woman hate it . they considere it a cheating just like you . yet , they don't say why god ?? because they know what god meant of putting this rule . Cheating is exit every where ? you can not stop this crime . it really painful but impossible to erase from the world . what did the low of your country do for preventing this ????? nothing at all . fine ….. islam did alot think how it easy ….. . Unmuslim man find it easy to cheat his wife . just go to the bar , dance , drunk , findng girl , have sex . soooo simple . who can say no . even wife can not . but Islamic cheating is so difficult . no bars, no drunk , no sex out of marriage . no mix between men and women in the partty or in the public gathering , and the must important . women can not attract men by wearing sexy clothes and being hot . all this is forbidden . this rules decrease the cheating . . in Saudi Aarabia for example there is less average of cheating , less average of divorce , less average of sex disease and less average of sex out of marriage .especially . . so wife in Islamic country are more safe . and family are saved . there is emotional safety Islam only thought about . Look what islam did for the seek of wife …… Did you ever think why islam order women to ware hijab when she go out ? it is for the seek of wifes . to live happily , no worry or fair that another women would take her husband by her beautiful leg or chest . I am a woman and like to be beautiful when I go out . I know every woman is like me . but for the seek of other women islam order me to hide my beauty . so I most obey . and don’t be selfish by following my desire . By the way .man can stare at any thing pretty accept woman . looking to the women with lusty is forbidden in islam . there is saying for the prophet mohammed (pbuh) : (the first sight for you and the second is for the devil )this means that the second sight is always done when you want to gaze at her beauty and this awake your lusty thought . god don't want this thought to araise into the mind . this thought most be sleep . Don't think man is shy when he look to the ground while speaking to a foreign woman Don't think woman is shy when she look to the ground while speaking to a foreign man . it is the order of god in islam religion . Ok . Know I will tell you way polygamy is useful . If all these obstacles did not avoid the thought of cheating in husband mind . islam make benefit of this bad thing (cheating ) . it is to build new family for the seek of woman surly . How interested in making family , woman or man ……………… man only want to have sex , so he will use the mistress and than leave her after month , week or even adays . For saving the right of this mistress . and to preventing her from being inferior by the call (mistress) . Islam order man to marry her before any thing happen between them ..or he wil be ponish and she will also it is not good for the woman to be mistress , she will be hated by the society for being cheep , she may become pregnant , the cheating man will return to his family leaving her with a lot of pain and a lot of responsibility . she will be a single mom and live the rest of her life take care of the man dead result, by her self alone . also the baby that created from this relationship will hurt because his father usually don't give him his name . baby lives with out father and this is not good for him . soooooo polygamy is for the seek of the another woman , and to force man be responsible for his lusty and his love for women . he can not run away . it is also an obstacles prevent man from following his desire because he will hesitate in getting marriage since there is a lot of responsibility follow it . how hard to spend money in two family . do not think there are a lot of polygamy among Arabian men . there is a few . much less than cheaters in you country , be sure , and the single mom is fewer than yours. what about the old wife … ok ,… the poor wife will be suffering definitely in the two cases . weather he cheating her with marriage or with out marriage since he insist in doing what he want . but which is better ; one woman hurt or two woman and child hurt .think of it . however ,it is the wife choice . she can stay with him and she can ask for divorce . now I will answer this question ? Why woman can not have a polygamy ? Because this will hurt her children . every husband deny the fatherhood just to avoid the responsibility . islam refuse to hurt the child by being with out dad . it is his right to have a name and to have one father not two or four . god choose to have benefit of this cheating since it can not prevent . which is building up new family .
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