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Besides drugs, does Saudi Arabia create laws similar to Sighe or is this just a Shia law? No . there is no temporary marriage in Saudi Arabia , because the majority is suna , and suna believe this marriage was allowed for period in prophet time than god forbid it , while shi'a believes it was not forbidden, and say that the second ruler after prophet death , who's name is Omar Bin Al Hattab is the one who prevented it and punished how do it because he dislike it . The words temporary and pay leads me to believe it is prostitution Ok.I understand and respect you point of view . It is not strange opinion, by the way . also suna think as you and attacks shi'a for not forbidden it , not because there is the word ( pay ) , no , normal marriage in islam also have ( maher ) given to the bride, it can be money , or ring or Qur'an or any thing else , it can be what ever bride want , and if she want nothing , it is up to her , no problem . Now I am shi'e woman and want to represent the shi'a point of view here . not to convince any one ,nor to encourage people to do it . but it is just to clarify shi'a's opinion . بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم اللهم أشرح لي صدري ويسر لي أمري وأحلل عقدةً من لساني يفقه قولي Roshandel said :U know that in a society that all People are modesty (Like Iran) if a woman do temporary marriage All people look at her strangely.
Iran is the only Islamic country that allow temporary marriage , yet , nation do not practice it because of the modesty and because they hate it . it is not respected . Not every thing allowed in islam , god want you to do it , remember this Do you know that god in Islam allowed us to eat animal's carcase , but when ? When we are dying because of hungry . with out this condition you achieve a sin . If you attack me because my religion allow us to eat disgusted animal's carcase . I would say ; no . we do not do it , this is disgusted , but also we do not blame god for this declaration ? because we know some people under some hard circumstances need to eat this dead animal to be alive . Would you trust me if I said that , I hope so . polygamy is just like this and also temporary marriage . trust me they are not good . and god do not want you to do it in order to enter heaven , it is the opposite . rushandel told the truth when he said it is rare in Iran , it is because must mulims suni and shiai have a high sense of modesty and chstity . notes , must I said not all , there are always an exceptions . and there always bad men and women .
do you remember the condition god put for polygamy it is the justice , if there is no justice …… polygamy is a sin leads you to hell . now what is the condition god put for temporary marriage ? the condition is not to convert temporary marriage into prostitution , it is not to be a game of pleasure , because modesty is some thing very very very important to god . there are more conditions roshandel wrote above . but I mentioned the one which god put in Qur'an . this is the evidence from the holy qur'an : قال الله جل جلاله : (فما استمتعتم بهن فأتوهن أجورهن غير مسافحين ولا متخذي أخدانا ) I believe that the shi'ai muslim who sleep every day with girl , and says it is my right since god allowed me to do so through temporary married . This one will be definitely in the hell , he pretty deserve hell for using this allowance in wrong way , also women . it is like the boss or the judgment who use his authority that low give him to do horrible thing . also the muslim man how have 4 wives , humiliating them and abuse one , two of them or all , trust my god will punish him , polygamy in this case is a big sin . also the muslim men how have many children that he can not remember their name , who leave them in the streat ,and care nothing about their condition , education and their psychology . trust me , he will go to hell Using islamic rule in such way is disgusted and horrible thing . god do not accept it . Temporary marriage is allowed for necessary situation , and I will tell you one example : There is one common case in which temporary marriage is necessary and some how accepted for shi'a , but still even in this case the person keep it as a secret , because even in this case they shi'a will feel disgusted . When ? can you guess , ok , I will tell you . It is when a young single man travel into a foreign country for studying . and find him self In a country where girls try to appear their beauty as much as they can . no part of there body need to be hidden In a country where women walk in public wearing clothes considered as underwear . In a country where every advertisment remind of sex . In a country where Pornographic is consider as an art and can be found every where . In a country where if girls like some one , she try to attractive him and get him in all possible way . in this case a virgin gay can not be modesty easily , hard to achieve chastity . How easy was to achieve modesty in his Islamic country , where girls and women are so operated because they know the orders of god , which is to be modesty and wear veil and cover their pretty and hot body with suitable clothes if she want to go out of the house , This virgin guy can use temporary marriage , and his open minded parents sometimes advice him secretly to do so in order to be far from sins , deasese and bad relationship . he can choose a polite , kind , beautiful girls whom he loves to be his wife . . unfortunately , suni do not have this choice , he either stay in suffering to achieve chastity , or have constantly marriage while he is still young and not ready for it or committing sins by having sex with out marriage .
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. what 's your comment? hm….unfortunatelly..that movie's not translated to english…(this film is based on Best Seller Novel in Indonesia,..the author is Habiburahman El Shirazy..(he graduated from Al Azhar University-Cairo)..even the film is not as good as its Novel (like Da Vinci Code film is not as good as its novel), but at least we found the meanings of that film!!.
