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polygamy .......for what



Saudi Arabia


I notice there are a lot of argue about Islamic  polygamy


What is the  benefit of this rule


Let me tell you first that I hate polygamy and every Muslim woman hate it . they considere it a cheating just like you   . yet , they don't say why god ?? because they know what god meant of putting this rule .


Cheating is exit every where ? you can not stop this crime . it really painful but impossible to erase  from the world . what did the low of your country do for preventing this ?????


 nothing at all .


fine …..


islam did alot


 think how  it easy    ….. .  Unmuslim man find it easy to cheat his wife . just go to the bar , dance , drunk , findng girl , have sex . soooo simple .      who  can say no . even wife can not  .  




Islamic cheating is so difficult  .  no bars, no drunk , no sex out of marriage . no mix between men and women in the partty or in the public gathering  , and the must important . women can not attract  men by wearing sexy clothes and being hot . all this is forbidden .  


this rules decrease the cheating .


 . in Saudi Aarabia for example  there is less average of cheating , less average of divorce , less average of sex disease and  less average of sex out of marriage .especially .


. so wife in Islamic country are more safe . and family are saved . there is emotional safety Islam only thought about .  


Look what islam did for the seek of wife ……


Did you ever think why islam order women to ware hijab when she go out  ? it is  for the seek of  wifes . to live happily , no worry or fair that another women would take her husband by her beautiful leg or chest .


I am a woman and like to be beautiful when I go out . I know every woman is like me . but for the seek of other women islam order me to hide my beauty . so I most obey . and don’t be selfish by following my desire .


By the way .man can stare at any thing pretty accept woman . looking to the women with lusty is forbidden in islam . there is saying for the prophet mohammed (pbuh) :  (the first sight for you and the second is for the devil )this  means that the second sight is always done when you want to gaze at her  beauty and this  awake your lusty thought . god don't want this thought to araise into the mind . this thought most be sleep .


Don't think man is shy when he look to the ground while speaking to a foreign woman Don't think woman is shy when she look to the ground while speaking to a foreign man . it is the order of god in islam religion .


Ok . Know I will tell you way  polygamy is useful .  


If all these obstacles  did not avoid the thought of cheating in husband mind . islam   make benefit of this bad thing (cheating ) . it is to build new family for the seek of woman surly .  


How interested in making family , woman or man ……………… man only want to have sex , so he will use the mistress and than leave her after month , week or even adays  .


For saving the right of this mistress . and to preventing her from being inferior by the call (mistress) . Islam order man to marry her before  any thing happen between them ..or he wil be ponish and she will also


it is not good for the woman to be mistress , she will be hated by the society for being cheep , she may become pregnant   ,   the cheating man will return to  his family leaving her with a lot of pain and a lot of responsibility . she will be a single mom and live the rest of her life take care of the man dead result,  by her self alone . also the baby that created  from this relationship will hurt  because his father usually don't give him his name . baby lives with out father and this is not good for him .




 polygamy is for the seek of the another woman , and to force  man be  responsible for his lusty and his love for women . he can not run away . it is also an obstacles prevent man from following his desire because he will hesitate in getting  marriage since there is a lot of responsibility follow it . how hard to spend money in two family .


do not think there are a lot of polygamy  among Arabian men . there is a few  . much less than cheaters in you country , be sure , and the single mom is fewer than yours.


what about the old  wife …  ok  ,… the poor wife will be suffering definitely in the two cases . weather he cheating her with marriage or with out marriage since he insist in doing what he want .

but which is better ;


one woman hurt


two woman and child  hurt .think of it .


however ,it is the wife choice . she can stay with him and she can  ask for divorce .




I will answer this question ?


Why woman can not have a polygamy ?


Because this will hurt her children . every husband deny the fatherhood just to avoid the responsibility . islam refuse to hurt the child by being with out dad . it is his right to have a name and to have one father not two or four .  



 god choose to have benefit of this cheating since it can not prevent . which is building up new family . 


12:24 AM Mar 13 2008 |

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Saudi Arabia



yes ,

every muslim know that there are different interpretations of the islamic religious teaching .


11:48 AM Apr 07 2008 |



Saudi Arabia


following book contains FAQ about  polygamy ,, pages (4 – 7) :





04:00 PM Apr 07 2008 |

Jane Doe

Jane Doe


I now can say that I love monatta for real

05:36 PM Apr 07 2008 |



Islam is rahmatan lil'alamin. so, polygamy is included in Islam.actually, Polygamy in Rasulullah's period has intention to keep women.In my country, polygamy has to be Controversial thing.I confused because many thing beside Polygamy are have to discussed. For example, In Indonesia many women is not use Veil or scarf.they shown their aurat. I sad for it…..

02:58 AM Apr 08 2008 |




I think such thing like polygamy is old fashioned.Women has shown that they can stand on their own feet.So there’s no need to keep polygamy “alive”.

04:52 PM Apr 08 2008 |



Saudi Arabia

good Idea but it is better to

prepare the popcorn and  the beer  for the  weekend night movie


 here , there will be no worthy entertainment show ,

08:24 AM Apr 09 2008 |




I have to say that I’m not a moslem.Sorry if I’ve ruined your day. ;)Maybe later I’d buy you all the beer. You can drink till you drop.;)
I’m soory Monatta. I didn’t mean to insult Islam but I just give Moslem brothers a second though about Polygamy. That’s all. No hard feeling.

04:56 PM Apr 09 2008 |



Saudi Arabia

mike ,
blake will be so glad if you send beers for him and jane .
I don’t understand why you say sorry to me ?
sorry for what

06:19 PM Apr 09 2008 |



sounds interesting…

However unconvincing… you can't compare your values to western values… it's simply different. Don't try to impose a point of view that doesn't go with everyone. Keep it to yourselves.


Proud Student of Open English 

07:40 PM Apr 09 2008 |



God doesnt order that… I cant understand why men are allowed to have many wives and women not. It's unfair! Those rules were invented by arabian men… only for its convenience.

09:48 PM Apr 09 2008 |