sherryleio
China
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Hello Kiki, I do not know how old you are, and where you are living, and how long you have been dating. Virgin issue maybe still something big in some places, but at most of the places, it is not a taboo any more. If you have been dated one guy more than one year, and you are old enough to handle that, and sex is so naturally for guys to ask for. I do not know what is the reason that you rejected him, being afraid that he would leave you after sleeping with you, or it is something that you always think that you can only do that at marriage night? Sex is a very important part of marriage life, and sometimes you need time to get it work just like you work out other things, how to fit in with each other, over habits, etc. So it is so common that a guy and a girl move in together and marry after 1 or 2 years. So for me I would sit down with him and discuss why he wants sex and why i don't want. Marriage is a compromise, for so 2 totally different persons to live in the same house. So just saying break-up can not fix anything. Guy's wanting sex does not mean he only loves sex not love you. Soul and body is integrated, I just do not know why we have to seperatede. Sure, sometimes, sex is sex, and love is love, but for the two beloved ppl, sex is love, and love is sex. Sex is human being's desire, and it is not a shame. When we are hungry, we go for food, when we are thirsty, we go for water, when we want sex, why we could not get that from the one that we love. Tomorrow is Valentine's Day, and I wish everyone here has a sweet day with your beloved.
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