Those who deserve never asks, it is better to give something before someone ask for something by inquiring about the level of their genuine needs. How the forces of nature work to help us?
The forces of nature help us before our asking, and without keeping record of either we deserve or we don't… There are so many people who have so much in abundance but natural forces provides them sunshine, air to breath, rain for survival without keeping either they afford it or they don't, nature works from different ways, without judging. There is saying that if giving hurts you than your giving will not give you any mental or spiritual benefit, it only gives benefit when we don't feel neither joy nor hurt. For feeling joy is having ego of superiority and the ego of superiority is having its roots in arrogance. Most of the time we act from our sub-conscious, unthinking mind so things like this happens and sometimes we give to someone undeserving but the actual force behind giving is good intention to help and after giving we must not to keep any regret because it ruins the process of giving. The G-d only needs your good intention and don't keep any record of your misjudgments. So, the remedy can be conscious giving attitude rather unconscious giving which sometimes ruin the process of giving like making question… 'does she deserves or she doesn't?' I think this question is meaningless after giving, now you can't have it back, can you!... maybe she had purchased a DVD regarding how to be employed or how to make money… Maybe G-d sent her to you to have that DVD and having inspired from some act to be independent… we don't know twist and turns of life and thinking….
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