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Why Do Married Men Or Wommen Cheat?

I am the legend

United Arab Emirates

Why Do Married Men Or Wommen Cheat?

06:18 AM Jun 27 2011 |

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I am the legend

United Arab Emirates

everybody plzz give me right answer

09:06 AM Jun 28 2011 |

I am the legend

United Arab Emirates

there is nothing wrong in my question dear criz its just straight question and everybody can explain easily 

12:38 PM Jun 28 2011 |

I am the legend

United Arab Emirates

it is not as like answer ryo

12:57 PM Jun 28 2011 |

hayam mansoor

Egypt

not all of them cheat some of the cheat if they hate their lives or the people they live witbFrown

07:03 PM Jun 28 2011 |

I am the legend

United Arab Emirates

Thanks For Nice Comment Song…....….Ryo…. He Is Right That What He Explained And Now Read It With Carefully What I Am Going To Explain All Have You Ever Thought Why Do Married Men Cheat? While It Is True Not All Married Men/Women Cheats But There Are Plenty Of Them Out There Who Cheat Even As I Am Writing This. There Are Good Reasons As To Why These Married Men/Women Cheat. The Most Common Reason Why Married Men/Women Cheat Is Because They Are Not Satisfied Sexually. How True Can This Be? As A Man Myself, I Can Say That Because Sexual Satisfaction Is Important For Men, It Is True. If They Are Not Satisfied They Are Sure To Find Other Means To Gain This Satisfaction. If You Are Woman Reading This, Have You Ever Considered That Your Man Might Not Be Sexually Satisfied? Men Seldom Hide Their Need For Sex. It Will Be So Obvious In Their Facial Expressions. If They Want It From You, They Will Do All Sorts Of Things To Get It, But You Being A Wife, Are You Fulfilling His Needs He Way He Wants It? Now Think About That Last Sentence. “Are You Satisfying His Needs, The Way He Wants It?”. It Is True, In A Relationship, It Is Important To Consider The Needs Of Your Partner. It Actually Goes For Both Parties. Although Sex Can Be A Choice, For Men It Is They Seldom Consider It As A Choice, But Rather As A Must. So Consider Satisfying Him They Way He Wants It, If You Don’t Want Him To Cheat On You. Thus, Because Lack Of Sexual Contact, The Love You Both Had In The First Place Grows Apart. Which Is Another Reason Why Do Married Men/Women Cheat? What Happened To The Intimacy You Both Had In The Beginning Of The Relationship? There Must Be A Reason. You Have To Be Honest To Yourself And Figure This Out. How Do You Treat Your Man? Another Reason If You Are Why Do Married Men Cheat Is Because Lack Of Communication In Their Relationship. When Men Feel Unloved, Especially If You Are Not Satisfying Him They Will Try To Find Place Where They Feel Better In Talking Out Their Thoughts And Feelings. All These Can Lead Him To Think That Both Of You In Reality Had Nothing In Common As You Both Thought In The First Place. He Loose Faith In The Relationship And Suddenly You Find Him Having An Affair With Someone Else. Don’t Blame If Your Man/Women If He/She Is Cheating On You, Nor Should You Blame Yourself. Whatever Happened Or Is Happening, Think Of It As Learning Experience. When Your Partner Is Cheating On You, What Does It Says? Simply, The Relationship Is Just Not Worth It Anymore. Once You Loose Your Trust, It Is Hard To Gain It Again. It’s Just Like Trying To Put Back Together A Shattered Mirror. You Can Try, You Can Glued It Your Best, But The Crack Will Always Remain. So It Is With Your Heart. So Why Resist And Try To Hold On To Something That Wont Work? I Admit, Whatever I Have Said So Far May Not Be True In Your Particular Case. In This Case, If You Really Want To Know Why Your Man Cheated On You, Just Ask Him. I Am Sure He Will Tell You. Don’t Feel Hurt. Just Take It As A Learning Experience And Move On With Your Life. You Might Be Married For Years And Have Children, But If Your Husband Is Cheating On You, Its Time To Think Of Your Life And Your Children And Just Move On. So What’s Next? I Am Not Encouraging A Divorce, But If That Had To Be Done, Than There’s Nothing Wrong With It. We All Have To Find Our Own Ways In Life. That Is Why I Always Say, No Matter Who We Are With, In The End, We Are Still Alone. You Came Alone, And You Will Leave Alone. All These Relationship Stuffs Are Just Social Requirements. I AM The Legend :)))))) Regards All

05:18 AM Jun 29 2011 |

Saladeen

Saladeen

Pakistan

That’s a very provocative reconstruction of interrogative. Provocative in a sense that a person who is not a cheater in his whole life will be so jealous that why s/he is the only fool not cheating while rest of the men and women do ;)) so, do you indulging them as well to be a cheater? :-( I don’t think so that’s your intention. So in other words these kind of interrogative is not a good substitute for solution based questions. I feel the better question can be: why disputes arise among couples? Because in that way scope of the question will be so enlarge that it will carry the subject to its roots. I feel the most basic root of the problem is lack of communication or when you are unable to throw communication ballon in such a way which is also understandable to the person you are throwing. Men and women speak different languages and further more each person speak unique different language behind the words. Now what is in your mind while posing this question is only visible to you and how I am answering is my horizon. The real skill of any couple is to know behind the words meaning and taking care of it. What you are doing while your spouse is not watching shows your actual character and his/her sense of worth.

09:41 AM Jun 29 2011 |

I am the legend

United Arab Emirates

Anyway For Sister  Ryo Its really Thanks You So Much Becoz Ur The 1st always reply my question 

12:33 PM Jun 29 2011 |

WobblyJoe

WobblyJoe

United States

To add my opinion, I think it’s a combination of low self esteem and immaturity. Not everyone cheats, only those who chose to do so.

11:26 PM Jun 29 2011 |

Hayetikum

Germany

I think there are a lot of possible reasons why one person cheats on another, regardless of age, regardless of ethnic heritage, regardless wether it’s a man and a woman, two men or two women, regardless of religion.I also wouldn’t try to interfere in other people’s business. Maybe one partner feels lonely in the relationship, or not respected. Can also be that someone (just my opinion, but I don’t want to judge) simnply has a questionable character. So many possible reasons.That is why being honest in a relationship is so extremely important to me. I want to be able to tell whenver something bugs me and I also expect the other one to tell me.

09:10 PM Jul 01 2011 |