if i can hold the love

can u love a man if u are a girl and make efforts to make him be ur bf?

I don’t have any experience

just do it ,tell him your love,try you best ,such as give hime a gift when some special day,whatever you hold the love or not eventually,you have tried your best ,so you need not regret any more.above just from my point of view,you just said that him is a man,not just a boy,right,so you have to think about if he have married ,and have wife and kids,if yes,maybe it’s hardly,if he still single,you can date him directly and give a invitation as well,if he really love u like u love him,he will accept your invitation and tell you what him think about.