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Why am I Muslim ? ... Why am not I Muslim ?

alshehri2005

Saudi Arabia

many people want to know …why are not u Muslim? or why are u Muslim ?

Plz. respect all of religions ….

Regards

12:23 AM Oct 19 2007 |

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GOODSAMARITAN

India

The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media. The ‘hijaab’ or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the ‘subjugation’ of women under Islamic law. Before we analyze the reasoning behind the religiously mandated ‘hijaab’, let us first study the status of women in societies before the advent of Islam


1.  
In the past women were degraded and used as objects of lust

 

The following examples from history amply illustrate the fact that the status of women in earlier civilizations was very low to the extent that they were denied basic human dignity:

 

  1. Babylonian Civilization:
    The women were degraded and were denied all rights under the Babylonian law. If a man murdered a woman, instead of him being punished, his wife was put to death.

  2. Greek Civilization:
    Greek Civilization is considered the most glorious of all ancient civilizations. Under this very ‘glorious’ system, women were deprived of all rights and were looked down upon. In Greek mythology, an ‘imaginary woman’ called ‘Pandora’ is the root cause of misfortune of human beings. The Greeks considered women to be subhuman and inferior to men. Though chastity of women was precious, and women were held in high esteem, the Greeks were later overwhelmed by ego and sexual perversions. Prostitution became a regular practice amongst all classes of Greek society.

  3. Roman Civilization:
    When Roman Civilization was at the zenith of its ‘glory’, a man even had the right to take the life of his wife. Prostitution and nudity were common amongst the Romans.

  4. Egyptian Civilization:
    The Egyptian considered women evil and as a sign of a devil.

  5. Pre-Islamic Arabia:
    Before Islam spread in Arabia, the Arabs looked down upon women and very often when a female child was born, she was buried alive.


2.  
Islam uplifted women and gave them equality and expects them to maintain their status.

 

Islam uplifted the status of women and granted them their just rights 1400 years ago. Islam expects women to maintain their status.

 

Hijaab for men

People usually only discuss ‘hijaab’ in the context of women. However, in the Glorious Qur’an, Allah (swt) first mentions ‘hijaab’ for men before ‘hijaab’ for the women. The Qur’an mentions in Surah Noor:

"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."
[Al-Qur’an 24:30]

The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze.

Hijaab for women.

The next verse of Surah Noor, says:

" And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands’ fathers, their sons…"
[Al-Qur’an 24:31]


3.  
Six criteria for Hijaab.

 

According to Qur’an and Sunnah there are basically six criteria for observing hijaab:

  1. Extent:

    The first criterion is the extent of the body that should be covered. This is different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on the male is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees. For women, the extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete body except the face and the hands upto the wrist. If they wish to, they can cover even these parts of the body. Some scholars of Islam insist that the face and the hands are part of the obligatory extent of ‘hijaab’.

    All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women.

  2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.

  3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see through them.

  4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex.

  5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.

  6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e. they should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols of the unbelievers’ religions.


4.  
Hijaab includes conduct and behaviour among other things

 

Complete ‘hijaab’, besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes the moral conduct, behaviour, attitude and intention of the individual. A person only fulfilling the criteria of ‘hijaab’ of the clothes is observing ‘hijaab’ in a limited sense. ‘Hijaab’ of the clothes should be accompanied by ‘hijaab’ of the eyes, ‘hijaab’ of the heart, ‘hijaab’ of thought and ‘hijaab’ of intention. It also includes the way a person walks, the way a person talks, the way he behaves, etc.


5.  
Hijaab prevents molestation

 

The reason why Hijaab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur’an in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahzab:

"O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful."
[Al-Qur’an 33:59]

The Qur’an says that Hijaab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested.


6.  
Example of twin sisters

 

Suppose two sisters who are twins, and who are equally beautiful, walk down the street. One of them is attired in the Islamic hijaab i.e. the complete body is covered, except for the face and the hands up to the wrists. The other sister is wearing western clothes, a mini skirt or shorts. Just around the corner there is a hooligan or ruffian who is waiting for a catch, to tease a girl. Whom will he tease? The girl wearing the Islamic Hijaab or the girl wearing the skirt or the mini? Naturally he will tease the girl wearing the skirt or the mini. Such dresses are an indirect invitation to the opposite sex for teasing and molestation. The Qur’an rightly says that hijaab prevents women from being molested.


7.  
Capital punishment for the rapists

 

Under the Islamic shariah, a man convicted of having raped a woman, is given capital punishment. Many are astonished at this ‘harsh’ sentence. Some even say that Islam is a ruthless, barbaric religion! I have asked a simple question to hundreds of non-Muslim men. Suppose, God forbid, someone rapes your wife, your mother or your sister. You are made the judge and the rapist is brought in front of you. What punishment would you give him? All of them said they would put him to death. Some went to the extent of saying they would torture him to death. To them I ask, if someone rapes your wife or your mother you want to put him to death. But if the same crime is committed on somebody else’s wife or daughter you say capital punishment is barbaric. Why should there be double standards?


8.  
Western society falsely claims to have uplifted women

 

Western talk of women’s liberalization is nothing but a disguised form of exploitation of her body, degradation of her soul, and deprivation of her honour. Western society claims to have ‘uplifted’ women. On the contrary it has actually degraded them to the status of concubines, mistresses and society butterflies who are mere tools in the hands of pleasure seekers and sex marketeers, hidden behind the colourful screen of ‘art’ and ‘culture’.


9.  
USA has one of the highest rates of rape

 

United States of America is supposed to be one of the most advanced countries of the world. It also has one of the highest rates of rape in any country in the world. According to a FBI report, in the year 1990, every day on an average 1756 cases of rape were committed in U.S.A alone. Later another report said that on an average everyday 1900 cases of rapes are committed in USA. The year was not mentioned. May be it was 1992 or 1993. May be the Americans got ‘bolder’ in the following years.

Consider a scenario where the Islamic hijaab is followed in America. Whenever a man looks at a woman and any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he lowers his gaze. Every woman wears the Islamic hijaab, that is the complete body is covered except the face and the hands upto the wrist. After this if any man commits rape he is given capital punishment. I ask you, in such a scenario, will the rate of rape in America increase, will it remain the same, or will it decrease?


10.  
Implementation of Islamic Shariah will reduce the rate of rapes

 

Naturally as soon as Islamic Shariah is implemented positive results will be inevitable. If Islamic Shariah is implemented in any part of the world, whether it is America or Europe, society will breathe easier. Hijaab does not degrade a woman but uplifts a woman and protects her modesty and chastity.

11:45 AM Oct 20 2007 |

GOODSAMARITAN

India

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11:47 AM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria

              i Wrote it before:Kanaobi

8.The right to obtain divorce from her husband, even on the grounds that she simply can't stand him. (pls note that God deeply frowns upon divorce as a solution unless there is hardly any other alternative but it does not mean that men have more right to divorce their wives than women do.)                      

12:16 PM Oct 20 2007 |

ilyasma

ilyasma

Sri Lanka

Hi there friends!

I just would like to ask you a quick question before discussing anything, what do you know about Islam and Muslim? Not what you have heard about it or not what you have seen at some Muslim. What do you really know about Islam and Muslim?

Well let me tell you a little bit about it, the word “Islam” means peace and submission. Peace means to be at peace with yourself and your surroundings and submission means to the will of god. A broader meaning of the word “Islam” is to achieve peace by submitting to the will of God.This is a unique religion with a name which signifies a moral attitude and a way of life. Judaism takes its name from the tribe of Juda, Christianity from Jesus Christ, Buddhism from Goutam Buddah and Hinduism from Indus River. However, Muslims derive their identity from the message of Islam, rather than the person of Messenger Mohammed, thus should not be called “muhammadans

Who is a Muslim? The word "Muslim" means one who submits to the will of God. This is done by declaring that "there is no god except one God and Muhammad is the messenger of God." In a broader sense, anyone who willingly submits to the will of God is a Muslim. Thus, all the prophets preceding the prophet Muhammad are considered Muslims. The Quran specifically mentions Abraham who lived long before Moses and Christ that, "he was not a Jew or a Christian but a Muslim," because, he had submitted to the will of God. Thus there are Muslims who are not submitting at all to the will of God and there are Muslims who are doing their best to live an Islamic life. One cannot judge Islam by looking at those individuals who have a Muslim name but in their actions, they are not living or behaving as Muslims. The extent of being a Muslim can be according to the degree to which one is submitting to the will of God, in his beliefs and his actions.

I just wanted to share it with you, and I don’t like to hurt anyone’s feeling. We have to understand each others religion and we should not criticize any religion, we should respect each other’s religion and its okay to ask your doubt and whoever knows the answer can help others to understand it.   

Thank you for your precious time and good luck to us. 

Good Day….Mohammed Ilyas

12:40 PM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria



  

"HEAD-COVERING IS A SIGN OF PURITY AND DIGNITY" phisically and moraly…i talk about the real Muslim woman…u know that good and bad pple r everywhere,with their different faiths not only Muslim.

 ( i talk about muslim woman and i didn't generalized…if ur g/friend is pure..this is very good 4 her and 4 u Mr.Progression. )

 

 

 

01:04 PM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria

Omg,progression;don't tell me that there is no difference betweem woman that wears Hijab and other woman without it…which one do u prefer?especially in your case…hehe

   this is the aim of our Sacred Islam,it  protects us.

  

01:24 PM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria

 DO U RESPECT OTHER RELIGIONS? this was a post in" life talk" by my friend sweety buddly.

may be i was the exception there for i answred that i respect one's religion if he/she respects my faith…without any masks.

  the majority there wrote that they do;they respect all religions.but now i doubt about their perfect answers for this topic reveals their real thoughts.

i  don't know why majority of pple have problem with Islam? see;this is the real meaning of this topic and not to talk about political position of Muslim women ( to be honest,all woman in arab world,USA,Indonessia,china,Turkey….........etc,they were inferior in this field coz of men and their policies policies…but now there are some good changes)

01:40 PM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria

DO U RESPECT OTHER RELIGIONS? this was a post in" life talk" by my friend sweety buddly.

may be i was the exception there for i answred that i respect one's religion if he/she respects my faith…without any masks.

  the majority there wrote that they do;they respect all religions.but now i doubt about their perfect answers for this topic reveals their real thoughts.

i  don't know why majority of pple have problem with Islam? see;this is the real meaning of this topic and not to talk about political position of Muslim women ( to be honest,all woman in arab world,USA,Indonessia,china,Turkey….........etc,they were inferior in this field coz of men and their policies policies…but now women have their political rights everywhere)

01:41 PM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria

heheheh if Muslims are killers,criminals…..what should we name the leader of the world and his folowers?   psssss the leader is the e… G.Bush.       lolollolol Embarassed

               im proud that im Muslim and thx 4 my God..Innocent

01:55 PM Oct 20 2007 |

lind@

lind@

Algeria

 "You try to create an atmosphere of sensationalism by such examples, but modern ppl got over these taboos decades ago…"lololololol what is this??

now Mr.Progression BE RESPECTFUL & LOOK AT FACTS OBJECTIVELY & NOT CHOOSE ONLY THINGS THAT HELP U   Frown

 

    Progression tell us about ur wonderful religion to share with u some ideas and to know more about ur perfect world….heheheh. it's your turnLaughing

03:12 PM Oct 20 2007 |