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Flaking Out

Flaking Out

Date: Mar 23 2007

Themes: Friend

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Different cultures approach the concept of social plans differently. Even within the US, people vary in their expectations of friends when it comes to making and following through on social plans.

Some people on our lives are known for flaking out. They say they’ll call you but they never do. They always say they’ll come to the show or the party or the bar, but they rarely show up.

Whether someone will be upset if you flake out depends not only on the person but also on the situation. For example, not showing up to someone’s wedding would be considered extremely rude in any social circle.

But if a group of friends is just going out for a drink after work, whether you show up or not may not be important. In general though, it is best not to make promises you can’t keep.

Listen to Marni and Mason talk about flakes and flaking out.

Dialog

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Marni

Marni

Mason

Mason

Marni:  You know, I have something really terrible to admit.

Mason:  What is it?

Marni:  I actually flaked out on a friend of mine to meet you here today.

Mason:  You did?

Marni:  Yes. I know. Isn’t that terrible?

Mason:  Did you tell them at all?

Marni:  I kinda made a really lame excuse. I was just, like, “Yeah, I just can’t show up. I’m jut not feeling well.” Do you feel honored though? I did that to meet you.

Mason:  Well, I mean, yeah, I guess. But I kinda have a really big pet peeve with flakes…

Marni:  Yeah.

Mason:  ... Um, ‘cause I know a lot of them. I found out this winter almost all of my friends are flakes.

Marni:  Really?

Mason:  Yeah, uh, I took a big trip and I had, at one point, like, 14 people that were gonna come. And six people ended up going.

Marni:  I would never flake out on someone if it was, you know, an event where I knew they had…

Mason:  It was, like, a big deal?

Marni:  Well, that and they had pre-paid or something like that. But if it’s just really casual plans. Sometimes I think it’s just better just to do what you feel is right.

Mason:  I got to thinking about it though and I realized why. Flakes are more fun. Because the reason they’re constantly flaking is they actually have all this fun stuff to do…

Marni:  Exactly.

Mason:  ... and they’ve got their choice of, like, “Oh, I could do this fun thing or that fun thing”...

Marni:  Well, thanks. I consider myself a fun person.

Mason:  ... and so sometimes your fun thing isn’t fun enough.

Marni:  Right.

 

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Discussion

Marni tells Mason that she flaked out on another friend in order to hang out with him.

Mason doesn’t like flakes, but at the same time, he has recently realized most of his friends are flakes!

Are you a flake?

Are any of your friends flakes?

 

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Kingsw

Kingsw

China

who can be my friends?

01:20 AM Mar 23 2007 |

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