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She's No Good For You

She's No Good For You

Date: Nov 06 2007

Themes: Friend, Romance

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Do you have any friends who are single, but totally deserve a great partner? Maybe you spend a lot of time together and you think, “I hope my friend falls in love,” or “I hope my friend finds someone to be with.”

Well sometimes it’s good to be careful what you wish for, or at least more specific. Your friend might find someone who treats him or her really well, but it seems like a lot of nice people end up in relationships that are no good for them. Listen to Kevin tell Amanda about a great friend of his who is mixed up with an awful girlfriend.

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Kevin

Kevin

Amanda

Amanda

Kevin:  So my best friend calls me last night, and he’s dating this girl…she’s not very nice. She’s really hard on him, and I’m like, “She’s no good for you.” And it’s one girl after another that he’s dated just not very nice to him.

Amanda:  But have you noticed that a lot of times good people will date bad people no matter what. No matter how poorly they’re treated, no matter how much the friends will threaten, “We’re not gonna hang out with you anymore as long as you continue seeing that person.”

Kevin:  I don’t get it.

Amanda:  They like that bad…I don’t even know what it is.

Kevin:  What do you think it is, though? Is it a lack of self-confidence that you’re going attract someone who’s one, physically attractive, and two, really good to you? I mean is it that difficult?

Amanda:  It seems interesting, I think the people who end up in those relationships with bad or mean people, like you said, they’re insecure, they have a lack of self-confidence, and for whatever reason, they think they can’t do better.

Kevin:  Yeah. It’s really a shame because he’s such a great guy. He deserves a wonderful girlfriend and yet, he’s dating this girl.

 

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Discussion

Kevin’s friend has a girlfriend who is mean to him. It’s not the first time this has happened to Kevin’s friend either.

Amanda says that she’s noticed that good people often fall in love with people who are no good for them. It doesn’t matter how badly they’re treated or how much their friends distance themselves, they can’t tear themselves away from their rotten partners.

Amanda and Kevin guess that nice people who end up in bad relationships must have poor self-esteem. Whatever the case, it makes Kevin sad that his great friend can’t have the sort of girlfriend he deserves.

Have you ever lost a friend to a bad relationship? Have you ever dated anyone who was no good for you?

 

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Jonathan_MC

Dominican Republic

i agree with all is 100% real.

04:48 PM Nov 06 2007 |

Freer

Freer

China

no one deserve anything(or anybody), i think, it is not logical, or reasonable, life is more like chaos, it is all destiny!

04:20 PM Nov 06 2007 |

Freer

Freer

China

oh, that is really of great fun and meanning. we are sometimes in a confused situation when get involved in a love affair, especailly when that love is strong and somewhat irrational.  so who on earth knows that who is good to you and who is good for you? it all depends on your judgement, but at the time you are not quite yourself, however… so, just want to say, it is too complicated, and the best way to evaluate, i think, is after that love

04:16 PM Nov 06 2007 |

jianer666

jianer666

China

hi,i need some of u to help me with the first sentence in the conversation above .

here "So my best friend calls me last night,"

isn't it supposed to be "called me last night" instead of "calls"?

thank u in advance

 

03:25 PM Nov 06 2007 |

ohmyrichard

China

like to communicate with anyone who wishes for a long-standing relationship of real friends who share great ideas

 

03:05 PM Nov 06 2007 |

fatob

Egypt

Cool

02:57 PM Nov 06 2007 |

tottiahmed

tottiahmed

Qatar

One of my friends has the same problem. He always end up in a bad relationship, he’s so generous and white hearted but his rotten girlfriends tend to be mean to him and take advantage of his generosity. They are no good for him!

01:46 PM Nov 06 2007 |

Imelda Pera

South Korea

 It's really difficult to find a good person in this world.  Of course everybody wants to have a good friend, girlfriend, wife, husband, etc. At first, if we meet people, we don't know yet their attitude wether they are good or bad. So we need to be careful & aware to what person we are going to deal on.

01:12 PM Nov 06 2007 |

xiaobi

xiaobi

China

I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.

12:55 PM Nov 06 2007 |

xiaobi

xiaobi

China

I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.haha.

12:55 PM Nov 06 2007 |

dodiking

dodiking

Ghana

i had lost a friend to a bad relationship. it is an unforgettable moment. it so seems that it is a human experience but not giving up but getting the inner strength to go on is needed, however is not easy to forget.

11:42 AM Nov 06 2007 |

kaushalyats

Sri Lanka

sometimes when you really love someone you tend to become blind and deaf without listnen to others and ignoring bad qualities of your partner.even i had several experiences but good thing is i lernt lot of things from that. Some one good to you or good for you may not be a good to anotherone or good for another one always

10:19 AM Nov 06 2007 |

CathyQin

China

i think that it is better for really love

10:00 AM Nov 06 2007 |

CathyQin

China

i think that it is better for really love

10:00 AM Nov 06 2007 |

lpnawseng

Myanmar

I am reakky sorry to hear you

08:54 AM Nov 06 2007 |

raisrana

raisrana

Pakistan

This is the fantastic one

08:09 AM Nov 06 2007 |

fathma

fathma

Taiwan

I realized that love is blind. Because love itself is unreasonable.

07:02 AM Nov 06 2007 |

Mustafe adam

Somalia

if she is what you write this page, I would recommend you to persuade your real love.

I think this is the easy threatment.

 

thanks you very much

06:39 AM Nov 06 2007 |

Steelheart

Indonesia

Too much thing to think when we going to find the girlfriend, will make confusing to us. Because there are many lacking of we will meet about girlfriend.Cool

06:35 AM Nov 06 2007 |

Viviantong

China

Actually,I can't tell who really treat me well sometimes. Everyone seems friendly to me,but actually,they won't stand out and help you when i needed.

06:20 AM Nov 06 2007 |

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