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Bridesmaids

Bridesmaids

Date: Mar 12 2010

Themes: Romance

Grammar: Present Perfect Tense

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Being a bridesmaid can be fun, but it can also be a nightmare. It’s great to stand up with a friend or relative you care about and support her at her wedding. But bridesmaids also have a lot of responsibilities, from helping to plan the wedding to keeping the bride calm and relaxed on the big day.

And then there’s the dress. Bridesmaid dresses are known for being unflattering and expensive. Some dresses are prettier than others, but if there are several bridesmaids who all have to wear the same dress, it’s sure to look bad on at least one of them.

Marni and Beren have both been bridesmaids in the past. But they’ve also been to weddings where they didn’t have to be bridesmaids. Find which they prefer.

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Beren

Beren

Marni

Marni

Beren:  This summer, there were a bunch of weddings. My brother got married, my cousin got married, friends got married. Have you ever been in a wedding party?

Marni:  I have, yes. I have indeed, and it’s…it’s OK. You know, I actually, it’s funny you say that, because I was actually at quite a few weddings this summer as well, and I wasn’t a bridesmaid in any of them. And you know, part of me was like, OK, well, these are good friends, and should I get my feelings hurt because they didn’t pick me? No, because honestly, it’s kind of…I don’t know. It’s kind of a hassle, you know?

Beren:  Totally. I went to my…my really really good friend got married, and she didn’t ask me to be a bridesmaid and then later she’s like, “I was gonna ask you, but I didn’t want you to have to deal with everything that the wedding party was going to have to do.” And I was, like, grateful. I went to her bachelorette party, it was awesome.

Marni:  Right, right.

Beren:  And she was also a total bridezilla, just went crazy with stress, so I’m glad I didn’t have to deal with that aspect of it.

Marni:  So the bachelor/bachelorette party. I was actually just at a bachelorette party two nights ago. Super fun. We went to, you know, we actually had a hotel room downtown and then we went to a few bars and went dancing.

Beren:  Awesome. Did it get out of control?

Marni:  It didn’t get too out of control. The bachelor party got out of control.

Beren:  Oh.

Marni:  But uh, that seems to be expected.

Beren:  Par for the course.

Marni:  Yeah, exactly.

 

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Both Marni and Beren have been to a lot of weddings recently. But they weren’t in the wedding party at all of them. They agree that in some ways, it’s more fun to not be a bridesmaid at a wedding. Being a bridesmaid can be a hassle, especially if the bride turns out to be a bridezilla.

Sometimes people’s feelings get hurt if they don’t get asked by the bride to be in the wedding. It can be difficult for the bride to choose who her bridesmaids will be if she has a lot of close female friends and relatives. Usually the bridesmaids walk down the aisle in front of the bride in the wedding and wear matching dresses. They also help the bride plan the wedding and throw her a bachelorette party.

Have you ever been in a wedding party? Is it common to have bridesmaids at weddings in your country? Have you ever known a bride who acted like a bridezilla?

 

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ala4fadeel

Sudan

Is it par for the course to have groom-maids?

09:25 AM Mar 13 2010 |

nuna2300

nuna2300

Thailand

I never go to bachelorette party/ bachelorette party… There aren't these party in my country. The bride and groom have to stay at home,,don't go out and beware themself..  I have been to wedding party many many times. I like this party so much. It's happy and sweet party.

05:49 AM Mar 13 2010 |

Khulood

United Arab Emirates

My best friend's wedding was a month a go and I was not picked to be her bridesmaid, I felt bad at the beginning but then I accepted it. This is because being a bridesmaid is really hassle especially when I have other important commitments, like studying!

Its hard to choose your bridesmaid especially when you have lots of close female freinds!

05:16 AM Mar 13 2010 |

Ca_Brazil

Ca_Brazil

Brazil

i like very much weeding parties. its really common here, to have some bridesmaids at weedings.

12:39 AM Mar 13 2010 |

ms.norah

ms.norah

Saudi Arabia

i have never been bridesmaids however,i wish to be bridesmaid because i love brides and i like join with  them . in addition , i like big weddings  i like carry flowers. it will be interesting and i will have special feeling

12:28 AM Mar 13 2010 |

arezujun

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

I've never been bridesmaid before and i wish i never become one.it's a big responsibility.but it can be fun.

but i don't like it.

12:00 AM Mar 13 2010 |

lucy958

lucy958

Italy

I've never been a bridesmaid and I don't think I would like to be one I'd rather be a guest. Wedding are expensive nowadays! here in my country if you attend a wedding you have to spend money to buy new clothes new shoes, and of course to buy a nice gift. Sometimes you wish that you weren't invited!!!

07:27 PM Mar 12 2010 |

jolefrancaisSuper Member!

France

for a male it's very usual to be bridesmaids i suppose it's exclusively for a girl isn't it ?

04:22 PM Mar 12 2010 |

lenny80a

Germany

I have been a bridesmaide for a couple of years. It's was awesome! We had dressed the same dress but different color. The mother of bride was very nervos and stressed, I remember ever that the bride has washed dishes by her wendding.

03:39 PM Mar 12 2010 |

lenny80a

Germany

I have been a bridesmaide for a couple of years. It's was awesome! We had dressed the same dress but different color. The mother of bride was very nervos and stressed, I remember ever that the bride has washed dishes by her wendding.

03:39 PM Mar 12 2010 |

YOUYOU ZHANG

China

To be a bridesmaid for friends maybe a wonderful experience, just like the conversation above said, you can make more friends, enjoy the parties, also learn wedding things that maybe helpful to your own. but in China, once or twice  is enough,  many more experiences are not good for girls. Just because there is a folk custom in old china that a girl to be many times bridesmaid will never meet her Mr.right,and definitely,will never get married. it sounds a little bit weird and absolutely unscientific. but most of chinese girls choose to believe it and rarely to break it….

03:27 PM Mar 12 2010 |

lenny80a

Germany

This is a very helpfull lesson.

Thank you Ebaby!

 

 

 

02:16 PM Mar 12 2010 |

lenny80a

Germany

This is a very helpfull lesson.

Thank you Ebaby!

 

 

 

02:16 PM Mar 12 2010 |

warrior13

warrior13

Syrian Arab Republic

this subject concerns women so i havn't any thing to say

11:07 AM Mar 12 2010 |

damani

damani

Algeria

i think this topic doesn't mean men

11:00 AM Mar 12 2010 |

khaye-cee

khaye-cee

Philippines

i've been bridemaid before and its the wedding of my cousin it was fun and cool!!

10:49 AM Mar 12 2010 |

mba476

Azerbaijan

Oooooo

10:45 AM Mar 12 2010 |

Aison

Aison

Hong Kong

hee…..

09:33 AM Mar 12 2010 |

mickee85

mickee85

Philippines

Same here, I've never been a bridesmaid before and I am not planning to be that one one day:P I think it's fun though.

09:33 AM Mar 12 2010 |

_Chocolate_

Hungary

i have never been a bridemaid before, and i think i wont be that later too… i wanna have the dress like this just once a time, when i will have  wedding. :) 

07:48 AM Mar 12 2010 |

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