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Used To Do vs. Be Used To

Date: Feb 18 2011

Themes: Family

Grammar: Used to Do vs Be Used to

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We don’t always have a lot in common with our relatives, or even particularly like them. But we have to love them and try to get along with them, because we’re related to them. That’s just the way family works.

When you get married, you suddenly have a whole new set of relatives whom you have to try to get along with. In-laws have a bad reputation of being tough to deal with, from the father-in-law who is overprotective of his daughter, to the mother-in-law who criticizes every decision her son’s wife makes.

Amy is about to get married, and she’s a little nervous about having in-laws. Dale has been married for five years, so he can give her some advice.

有时候,我们与亲戚之间没有那么多共同点,甚至不太喜欢他们。但是我们必须爱他们,设法与他们和睦相处,因为亲戚就是亲戚。家庭就是这样。
当你结婚以后,会突然冒出很多亲戚,你必须设法与他们和睦相处。姻亲关系是有名的难处,岳父总是过度保护女儿,婆婆则经常刁难儿媳妇。
艾米就要结婚了,她有点担心将来的婆媳关系。德尔结婚已有五年,他将给艾米一些建议。

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Amy

Amy

Dale

Dale

Amy:  Do you have the situation that I’m beginning to have of having to deal not only with your own family but also with in-laws?

Dale:  Yes. I actually have in-laws that are from another city who’s coming into town, and I’m kind of excited about it. But you know, I’ve been with my wife for almost five years, so I’ve gotten used to the in-laws. But at first, it was a bit tough.

Amy:  Really, so do you and your mother-in-law and father-in-law have stuff in common?

Dale:  No.

Amy:  You don’t?

Dale:  No. But, I mean, she’s really sweet. But I think that I grew up differently, with a lot of culture, because I’m Philippino. So I don’t think they understand me that much, and in the reverse, I can’t understand them.

Amy:  Did your…when you met your wife’s father, did he give you the third degree or anything, like that cliche?

Dale:  Yeah.

Amy:  But you survived.

Dale:  Yep. And how about you, you’ve met your in-laws already?

Amy:  Future in-laws, yes.

Dale:  And they’re really nice?

Amy:  His mom and I are two peas in a pod.

Dale:  Well, there you go. There you go.

 

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Dale has been married for five years. Amy asks him about his relationship with his wife’s parents. He likes his in-laws and gets along pretty well with them, even though he doesn’t have a lot in common with them.

Dale has a very different background from his wife’s family. He is from the Philippines, and they are from the U.S. That makes it harder for them to understand one another, but they are nice and do their best.

Dale asks Amy about her future in-laws. She says that she and her fiance’s mom are like two peas in a pod. They get along great.

If you are married, do you get along well with your in-laws? If you aren’t married, is it important to you that your future husband or wife get along well with your parents?

 

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deroz

deroz

Egypt

actually i think that nobody is gettin along with his in-laws or its pretty rare especially his mother in-law :) .but 4  me its pretty important 2 gettin along pretty well with ma in-laws as much as i could. because 4 ma point of vision parents in the most important things in person's life and that's how we raise in Egypt  so when i treat ma husband's parents pretty well we will all live happy even though if im not like them :P.problems may show or raise by the parents whether wife's parents or husband's .so if u r gettin marry soon u have 2 win ur father ln-law's heart  if u were a female :) and if u were a male u gotta win ur mother's in-law heart :).that  how we play ;)

 finally god bless us all :) and wish ya luck all the brides and the grooms :)

09:50 AM Feb 18 2011 |

Ada Zhang

Ada Zhang

China

Actually, I do have trouble with the so-called future in-laws. I'm the only daughter of my parents, but I was not spoiled. As the only son in his family, my fiance is pampered and stubborn.His family is quite conservative. They all believe that men are superior to women. The thought really annoys me.Yell

07:09 AM Feb 18 2011 |

sofree

sofree

China

”But we have to love them and try to get along with them, because we’re related to them. That’s just the way family works.“

INDEED.

I think it's important they get well with each other. We are building one big family, not two rivals. It means everything in a marriage.

04:22 AM Feb 18 2011 |

Roamingcloud

Taiwan

Yes. It's important to get along with my husband's in-laws. If I don't like my in-laws, my husband will be a difficult situation. In the reverse, if he doesn't like my family, I will be in a dilemma, too. We love each other, so we try to love and understand what we love.

04:21 AM Feb 18 2011 |

andrespretty2

Colombia

Yes, it's very important for me, that my future wife get along with my parents, so my wife will be pretty confortable, also when she needs an advice of my parents, it'd be easy to ask for, and we will have a pleasant enviroment.

03:56 AM Feb 18 2011 |

trailo_hathanh

Viet Nam

Yes, Actually get along with the future in-laws is very important. In my country some couple divorce because of that.

when the husband is not get along with his wife's in law. The wife will be in the difficult situation.

02:33 AM Feb 18 2011 |

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