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midlife crisis
中年危机

It means the kind of feeling disappointed and worried about something once you are at the age of 40s or 50s!

Butta,  Change indeed is the only permanent thing in life .  I am from catholic background, I love Jesus Christ  and Virgen Mary  and also I have been  inspired by  Oriental religions  ,I have grown up into a more  undestanding person about the reality of this world.   I TRY to remember this: if you want to be happy make others people  be happy , don´t take to the street a moody face.

i think most people will experience this midlife crisis, but as long as she / he settles financially (at least a decent job) and has good relationship with his/her partner can cope or reduce this midlife crisis..

I have found the name of this film. It is “The Curious Case of Benjamin Button” I sure you all have seen it. 

Manu_wj, it would be better if we borned old and getting younger and youner in time. As far as I can remember there is a movie about that idea

kotlesya, YOUR SONG MAKE ME THINK THAT IT WOULD BE BETTER IF WE BORNED OLD AND GO ON IN OUR LIFE GETTING YOUNGER…

Buttafly, i’VE JUST SEEN YOUR PROFILE AND i’VE FOUND OUT WE ARE PEERS, WE’VE GOT TIME TO GET OLD, DON’T WORRY!

I will try to translate some words from one Russian song. It sings “If youth could be with a mature mind and the old age could be so active” Correct my translation please if you know the song “Eсли б молодость знала, а старость могла”. Thanks in advance

when peoples  are young  ignore that they are in possession of a coveted treasure (youth) the only problem is that youth is not permanent ,,just looking at youngsters  how they party ,dance and all that …and then is over, a family ,responsabilities , your   boss that makes your life miserable ,start  getting bold , growing a belly, girls address   you saying :Sir , instead of ehh guy !! After 40 you are a dinosaurious ,if you want to apply for a job.luckily ,my midlife crisis was mild.   

don’t worry butterfly, for just the little I know you I can tell you’ll be fine, I’m sure of that!

Buttafly , from your comment i fell that u are very sensetive person

i think i’m not wrong that’s why dont worry people like u cant hurt people u’re so thouhgtfull to people around u. believe that everything will be good

as a song “dont worry be happy” :))

well, I’m 37 and I haven’t got my “midlife crisis” yet, who knows in three years, I don’t know, what I know is that I started to live seriously when I got my 30 years.

It was my start-point and even if I’ve been having less time, I’ve used it better, doing sport, studing and dedicating myself on doing that things I’ve ever loved like cooking and travelling.

I think that it isn’t a very problem getting older, every age can be interessant because your personal experiences rise and you make less error in life.

I think that we have to enjoy evry time in our age because if you miss your teenager you can’t feel it later

What about 30s crisis? like what i experience now he he..

yes , Kotlesya i like this very much We have only one life and there is no time for us to waste it in the sadness.

My advice is to try to overcome the midlife crisis by the good and reliable people around us, by the hobbies and interests we have, by the good family and wife (husband), who will be aware what to do for your calmness and comfort. It is inevitable that we all are getting older day by day, but let us look ahead with an optimism, though it may be not easy task to do. We have only one life and there is no time for us to waste it in the sadness. 

Maybe i will experience that in that age, but right now it too young for me to think about this…and actually I think if one have done very well in one’s marriage and business, she(he) will feel more comfortable when go through this….

I don’t know anyone who is having a midlife crisis. I don’t think I could give them much advice either, except for that it’s only temporary. :)

i am a teenager now,and don’t need to worry about the things after 20 years.but i hope my parents are happy,they will not be so crazy.

there is nothing abt midlife crisis if you just live w all ur energy, generosity, honesty and be urself. u’ll never get old

if i will give someone any advice about mildlife crisis it will be very “usefull”

it will be very funny...nom i am teenager and i dont know what will happen after 20 years but now i think every age is beautiful because to live is beautiful

life is present that God give us and we should be thankful for it