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Abdull, some interesting facts you’ve shared with us. Yeah, I think Culture and society have a lot of impact on our conception of marriage, whether we want to admit or not.

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i live in Afghanistan, and i think  we have the lowest divorce rate in the world, here if two people split it will not look good on them and it will give them bad publicity in the society and then no one will marry them because of the bad publicity they  recieved. maybe 2 percent of marriages end with divorce and the reason is this that here getting marry is very difficult, the man has to have at least 20000 dollar to get marry so he will never seperate because if he seperates  he wont be able to marry again  because of the expenses, its a culture here to pay for the girls family and i think it has a positive aspect that will never seperate (its a culture)     my english is not good   if i made any mistake  please feel free to notify me   im here to learn english

we humanbing we just try to keep  the higher level of arrogant ..and forget   forgivness..and  in celebeites people  it  wil harder than average peole cuz of  focsuing eyes on them…...

They should not to believe what they have heard.or have seen in Newspapers, magazines and news about their marriage !

I mean : they should give no ears & no eyes for

Newspapers, magazines and news !

Then their marriage will successed !

It is life, sometimes is hard .

TutorHeather, the more you share with us, the merrier we are.

please don’t refrain from pouring all of your knowledge on us

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Divorce is marriage Hollywood style.

I supposed we all should have gotten used to celebrity divorces by now, apparently not, Mason is all emotional over Jennifer Lopez and Marc Anthony split, bless his heart.  Celebrity divorce is the air that stars breathe; thus, it’s more surprising to me when they remained tied up than when they split, sad? Admit it. It’s true. I think celebrities are far too hasty to commit. Falling in love, I correct, falling in lust I should say, is what drives them to each other. They just click out of gut feelings, a rather shallow attraction, and a sudden desire. Physical attributes, I believe is the ground they erupt their romantic liaison from.

     Well, for many years it has been easy for me to predict the next celebrity couple, I’m not a Nostradamus, believe me I’ve checked. I just picked up some patterns and factors which I found to be favorable for stars to meet their others; I purposely left out “significant”. The first indicator that two celebrities are likely to become partners is: co-starring in a relatively successful film, for years being on the set of a movie and walking together at its premiere has served as  a speed-dating event for stars. Another factor is the fact that they both are among the most trending or controversial names for that given period.  Once they’re popularity start to die out, they’ll try to regain the media’s interest by splitting up. In Hollywood the outcome of a divorce is a major boost in popularity. You’re constantly on the radar screen of the press, you become the talk of the town, and on come the lucrative interview proposals, you’re invited to the most broadcasted talk shows, everyone wants to know how that had happened.  Instead of condemning the act of divorce, the press and the culprits see it as a money-making machine, it’s what sells. Divorce, is what fans want to hear about .And suddenly the spotlight shine brighter on you, you’ve consequently resurfaced more popular than you ever been.  

     But few star couples really could have lasted longer had it not been for the pressure, and the rumors of tabloids. These paparazzi will follow these lovebirds individually like shadows and pounce on the most trivial of things to raise suspicions , titles like  “X is seen in Malibu with a mysterious woman”, “Y has allegedly cheated on X” ,  “X got cozy with unidentified man at bar”, some stuff like that. Tabloids are little buggers to married stars, some of those speculations they’ll come up with are so compelling that couples will begin to become less and less trusting intimately, which is the beginning of the end for them. No trust, means less credibility, less tolerance the relationship becomes a source of stress, it’s very unsettled and fragile.  It takes a lot of mutual loving and  trust  to sustain a marriage, If those are present in any relationship, then they’ll safeguard a couple from outside pressure and rumors. But unfortunately these are qualities, meaning they can’t be put on sheet of paper and portrayed, that’s what some celebrities need t realize.

  In the respect to the average of us, I think the standards set by society are the main causes of the rising of divorce cases. So much are expected from a married couple now.  Through the years materialistic assets have become more like necessities to people, these once ephemeral luxuries have turned to play a rather important role into our marriages.  It’s hard to keep pace with this fast-moving society, where demands are constantly changing, and the bars is always on the rise and the need to keep up in term of assets is almost mandatory. I’ve heard wives say to their husbands “Our marriage is so 1992!” whatever that suppose to mean! It’s a more material world now, and it’s getting in our bedrooms, our kitchens, and our backyard, everywhere.  We live in a world in which it’s almost laughable when you can’t afford certain things. First you need to earn money and then her heart, when you finally do; you need to earn even more money.  

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That’s life, man!  Everywhere divorce is rising higher rate than last time, Maybe because people are getting open to others now, hang out more often outside, people dn’t want to have boundary in their life, Married is not that easy and not just depend on love I guess. Well however everyone has their own reason why they do that, so if we are not sure our married will go smotly or will end up with divorce, better think more before we settle down. 

Celebrities, oh yeahh…... In my country also Celebrities facing the same problem, DIVORCE is not something unusual in their life, even they can directly married again after divorce with privious one, they don’t take much time just to take to another step to settle down, For them Married is kinda game I guess hhhhhhhh 

thats why i don’t like to settle down when after all youll just break up

There is a common denominator of most religions, they all consider marriage as something sacred, the permanent bond between man and woman that is supposed to last until death.

There are people who tend to make sacrifices and give up things for the sake of enhancing their marriage conditions, and there are also people who have priorities in life that are more important than maintaining their marital life safe.

Celebrities have difficult times with relationships ,the volatile nature of their marriage is apparent when we look at their divorce rate. I think they are overly attracted to maintain their stardom than their marriage.

Divorce has become more common recently,I think that’s because people are open now,such as thought,action and so on.They think they will meet the right person someday,and they believe “I can live well without you!”

It is ture that celebrities have a higher divorce rate.I think it’s harder for celebrities to stay married than average people.There are many things in their marrage, not only love.They will divorce when they have a better choice,or just feel bored on the relationship.So maybe I really like some icons,but I don’t agree their life style and their attitude to the marrige.

personally i never ever thought being famous could be a good thing and the reason they have high divorce rates  is because of the life style they chosen for themselves where you see attractive people around u all the time and the ease of sex makes the couples don’t value each other so much ….this is one thing

the other reason is that in their world , they meet many people and date many people before they settle down  and each person they date have good sides and bad side , so when they settles down they tend to think that there significant other have all the good  sides of the previous others they’ve been with which lead to disappointing.

you can earn dirty money but not dirty love!

Money is not the only solution of all the happiness… mony can give everthing to you but not happiness, it can give u the food but not hunger.. it can give u the water but not thirst.. it can give u the partner but not love and satisfaction..

This is for the celebrities as I think that they lean on the money and fame..

God makes the couples but human breaks that… in this way human is against the God and he or she can never be happy in future with their next married life after getting divorced with previous one…

if there is relevant matter in getting divorced and if both wants divorce then it may be good for both of them..but I m not sure about it if it’s right or wrong

Mebal Lee

I think he means that “Being realist and knowing that marriage is not a fantasy like the stories of unicorns and fluffy rainbows helps people to have a better success rate in their marriages”

because human being has lost his control over himself…. he or she always thinks that he or she could have got better than the previous….they don’t love but they run after the personal happiness… they have forgotten the word “sacrifice”.. may be because of having money it happens with them… after having money they think that only they have full right to do what they want to do… they play with other’s emotions…

It may be harder for the celebrities to stay married because they have everything and they think that they can get everything easily… they can get other one if they leave previous…human being of today’s generation has no power to bear anything… he or she believes in living life as they want to…. that’s y they do what they love to do… that’s assumption I have..

There may have been other reasons except money but I think that they need to manage that.. it’s not a child’s game… don’t spoil others life…