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Dear Sweet10hearts & Shadoww What is the pleasure of sex…?most of us don't know that…It's not mind or body although it's through body…for the time being we go beyond mind…we become thoughtless…. for a moment we trannscrndent to another world our…. real jump from mind ,to stay at mind always is the greatest tension… we need something to go away from the mind .. we may use druggs or sex to go bellow the mind… for a very little span of time we jump from the mind… & if we add awarenesss to the sex act we can jump to our soul… because it's soul that enjoys… to be soulful is the real enjoyment… it's a natural meditation to go beyond mind… But this was not a part of my question.. I was thinking about the stimulators… I feel that our life moves like chain… contineous process.. we start next day from where we left the last day.. we start next moment from where we left our life at the last moment… & during our life when sex appears in our body it first comes to our body alone… & it's kind of lust.. as we go through intercourse it starts becoming part of our mind… first we fill the lust.. but as we are prohibted by our religions & society we could't fullfill our lust… hence it settles in our mind… we have desires.. fantasies pending.. we always desires some news .... so the sex stimulant shifts from our body to mind… & it's mine experience that after we become old.. when our body become old & sex disappears from body it remains in mind only… & this is the most tragic situation… when our body matures but we have mind full of desires.. young… hungry… but it happens with all those who don't move from lust to love… lust is purely physical but love is something of mind… as lust is total mechanical love becomes sentimental… but it's our soul standing always behind our act… not in sex only but always… we never miss that but we just don't care that… it's the real observer in us… but we never live fully so we never get connected with it..
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