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ayenk

ayenk

Indonesia

April 12, 2007

I have a friend, she used to stay in the same city. Until her husband's boss asked him to move to other city.

While she was in my city, she always asked me to go out with her, shopping. I like shopping, but not that's crazy. I think when i wanted something, i always think twice before i buy it, since i am thinking smarter on using money. I will buy things if i really needed it.

She seems doesnt care about what she bought. She just think of her prestigious. Even she told me if she've never wore what she bought. what's a wasted?

And since she moved, i feel a bit relax, i can do everything that i want in my free time, i can do my hobbies and studying a bit. But.....she keeps calling me everyday during the evening, the time when i am getting ready to prepare my dinner, or the time that i just come home from my activities..and she likes to talk like hours on phone. It's really annoying..but i can't stop her for talking.

It's ok if she wants to talk on ph with me, but not everyday. I am sooooo tired of her, my precious ears hurt if i listened to the phone for hours.

How to say no to her? she is hot temper woman, in other side i don't want to lose the friendship. I just don't want to use the phone everyday..

Any advice?

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06:36 AM Apr 13 2007

ayenk

ayenk
Indonesia

Hi Teru, thanks for the advice, I will tell her that for sure..even it is so hard to say no. Thanks...

06:28 AM Apr 13 2007

teru

teru
Viet Nam

Hi ayenk!

I had the same situation to u. And i was really annoyed about everyday calls from my friend. Even that he called me but he didnt know wat to say with me.......hum???

And oneday, i decided to tell him " Don't call me everyday. I 've lots of works to do. I cant spend all my time talking to u, guy. But u can call me at weekend. We can talk together cauz im free at that time. okie!". And he agreed with me and just called me at weekend.

I know its so hard to say that.....but u know ayenk, i think u should say all wat u think and ur friend will understand u.

Nice.