My MESSY Blog
Turkey
February 4, 2013
What is the point of posting half-naked and sort of bawdy photos on the internet, especially on EB?
I see many women post such photos on EB, but what is the point? To get compliments or dirty comments? I personally would not need to feel honored by receiving a couple of silly and dirty comments like “You are sexy. You have sexy lips. I want you. I want to kiss you...” bla bla. I know myself and I know I am a pretty woman. That’s to say, I feel proud of my beauty already, so why do I need those empty words from some unknown people most of whom have a dirty agenda on their mind? I am not even questioning whether it is moral or not. It does not concern me, but it seems very impulsive to me to be enmeshed in such a poor and sort of humiliating situation.
I do not know what you think, but to me, a pretty woman both on the inside and outside is never in need of hearing those empty words, because she is sure of herself, her manners, and her outer and inner beauty. She is self-confident, and self-assured. She does not take any notice of vain words which do not serve for any real purpose AND she should not!
MESSY
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08:07 AM Feb 10 2013 |
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yuling2010
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05:04 AM Feb 09 2013 |
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MESS
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04:08 AM Feb 09 2013 |
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Mahtab.bp
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02:42 AM Feb 09 2013 |
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Moriza
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Hello my friend and pretty woman, Putting their half-naked pics they show their world,what they can offer to others.For every good there is a buyer.There are ones that like such things,as there are the others who have quite another values in life.A woman should be a mystery for a man.It always might be a place for his visualization.What is the interest when he sees evrth and at once? The world is simply a refletion of us.If we want a better world,we need to think better thoughts and do better things. |
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08:20 AM Feb 06 2013 |
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Boili
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January 26, 2013
First time I registered on Ebaby 6 years ago, I felt quite confused with everything - how to use the site and how to make foreign friends. I found myself on the way to the chat room, and hung there for a while watching people chat. I still did not quite get it but logging in and out for a few days and noticing the good manners of some chatters in the chat room, I felt hopeful and started to chat. My chat with only one person opened the door to a big gang of friends, who were the top chatters on Ebaby at that time. Once I was included in the chat, I suddenly was considered a top chatter without whom the room would suck, my friends said to me. :)
Maybe first time in my life, I got a chance to feel the true bliss of friendship with foreign people coming from totally different cultural, religious and educational backgrounds. I learned to accept people for what they were, regardless of their race, skin color, culture, ethnicity, etc. There were especially three people who meant a lot to me at that time. They were like lifetime friends to me. We always kept each other posted for what we were doing, how we were doing it, how it felt or what we would do next, just like typing a detailed report of the day. :) We had long chat sessions on MSN for hours, and we talked about many things - life, jobs, cultures, languages, friends, experiences, future plans, pains, sorrows, happy moments, family, boys, movies, illnesses, and everything. It felt like our friendship would never end. We even made promises about meeting each other some day in the future. All this took 3 whole years, but it takes only like 10 minutes to write about it here. :) At the end of 3 years, we felt like sisters, and even closer than that. We called each other on a regular basis, and texted messages as our lives got busier. But we still kept in touch no matter what. Then suddenly, one day, I noticed that our talks got less and less. We started to log into the chat room less frequently as we were preoccupied with many things - me being absorbed in my studies, as usual. Then I heard with our decreased visits to the chat room, the rest of our friends also appeared there not very often. Time passed and then again, I appeared in the chat room feeling embarrassed for my sudden disappearance but I found almost no familiar face there. I was disappointed, for sure. Disappointed that all those beautiful moments were only sweet memories that I would cherish forever.
But still, even though very seldom, I and my close friends email each other to talk about the updates in our lives, but it happens only 2-3 times a year. And I kept everything inside by now. I missed them very badly but I said, "Be patient. Everything will be alright soon, and you will meet your friends more often." But alas, nothing has changed. It has been almost 3 years since I last talked to them alive.
And today, I feel that everything fit together 3 years later. Sometimes life keeps you so busy that you come to underestimate all the beauties, and joys that life presents to you. You cannot hold on to them, because you are kind of blinded by your hectic life. You stand over like "OK, I will call her tomorrow." "I will text him soon." But then, all of a sudden you realize the right time never comes. You just fool yourself. OR you come to question the true meaning of friendship. Just like me, you can even remember a quote that you heard long time ago but forgot it :
PEOPLE COME INTO YOUR LIFE FOR A REASON, A SEASON OR A LIFETIME. WHEN YOU FIGURE OUT WHICH ONE IT IS YOU WILL KNOW WHAT TO DO FOR EACH PERSON.
I learned that friends come and go, and your life goes on. I have made new friends since then - some have come and gone, and some have remained.
But one thing has never changed : I have always remained. :)
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02:22 PM Jan 28 2013 |
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Moriza
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02:07 PM Jan 28 2013 |
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MESS
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02:01 PM Jan 28 2013 |
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MESS
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Moriza, my sweet friend, What a pleasure it is to welcome you in my profile every time. I wish I could offer you a nice cup of coffee, some chocolate or cookies and have a long face-to-face chat with you in real. I would really love to do that. The picture below might be a concise but rough representation of my perception of life in general terms :
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12:52 AM Jan 28 2013 |
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Moriza
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Hello DEAR MESS, Very nice story,as always. Interestingly,how to keep a friendship for ages and be happy of it? I think,the answer is - both sides have to want it... Today I came with morning greetings and good wishes for a whole week. Wake up,wake up -it,s morning time, Stretch yourself,freshen up your mind. It,s a new start,make the most, Live it with smile and enjoy to the core. |
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06:31 AM Jan 27 2013 |
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isynie_sansan
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04:09 AM Jan 27 2013 |
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Mahtab.bp
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Hi Sabiha! I read your experience you had on Ebaby! I think many of us have had those moments here! I have been here for about 2 years! I had very good moments and also very bad ones! But I dont want to come back to those times and repeat my mistakes!:) Anyway good or bad times of our life are not eternal and if they were forever we couldnt remind them as our memories! I hope you make more sweet moments with your friends here!! :) Thanks for beautiful Red rose! I love it! ♥
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January 21, 2013
AM I WITH THE RIGHT PARTNER?
During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind replied the author.
Here's the answer.
Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.
Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.
Because (listen carefully to this):
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.
Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO..
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09:40 AM Jan 25 2013 |
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isynie_sansan
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MESS
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Moriza
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ola33
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08:54 AM Jan 21 2013 |
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Eleniya
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Oh, love! How many stories about love are in the world? Millions and billions, I guess.. Nice story, Semiha :) Have a good winter time. |
