Me and ma jealousy :\

yeah, agree with you!! women are much better than men, no doubt!! but if they were the governors of world, we would often have moody countries, today being friend, tomorrow being sulky and enemy with each other!! and thats all just bcoz of jealousy..lol..

For real Hazelgirl, you really have good point ! 

most men when they feelin jealouse they go n talk with their beloved! 

strange! :\ 

and this is why women r much better then men lol 

furthemor, that jealousy has significant difference between men and women, generally women react in the way Ola33 mentioned, they prefer to talk directly to the suspended person and in some cases they have sort of disgusting behaviours as well, but if a man see somebody who absorbs his beloved person he may choose another way opposite of women, he makes his wife or gf limited in most of situations to prevent others from loving her.

a bit of jealousy is necessary for both men and women, esp when we can consider it as an essential feelings for someone we love, something such as "honor" that lovers have for each other, but this is a necessary emotion to protect a relationship faithfully, this kind of jealousy is not illness at all.

No, don't take it litterally. We have a poem

 I'm happy you're not sick in love with me

I'm happy it didn't affect me either

I'm not a translator but the words of the poem are very good.

Love is sickness but it can be a good  as well as bad one

Good luck!

illness !! 

now u broke ma heart :\ 

Thanks God I don't have that illness

Hazelgirl and ola33 , thanks for your comments. and both of you right. 

Jealousy could mean luv and caring but when this jealousy turn on to suspicion then I have problem :)

I dont feel suspicion thought, but what turn on ma jealouse is when a girl tell him how great he look like, or how sexy his voice sound ... now that is something turn me on :\ 

damn it! 

Thank you Hazelgirl. What makes behave like that? I think first of all, lack of education.

Like in that movie Shawshank Redemption when Andrew Dupree rhetorically asks Warden Norton, "How can you be so obtuse?!"

Maybe the lack of education is not an anwer also, there might be something else.

meaningful words Ola33, by the way, what makes her feel in that way??!! oh my god, her reaction is awful, full of hatred!!

Please, don't be jealous. It's good you admitted and see it as a not a positive site of the caracter but, I know that chasing someone is only makes matter worse. Let it go. Don't make someone suffer. I remember one girl spat into my face because she suspected her boyfriend likes me. Just like that, out of the blue, spat into my face with all the hatred ever imagined and she used a bad word as well. I still remember it. It made me a lot of sufferings after because her jelousy was haunting me! So, please kill that feeling as jealousy, because it makes many ones unhappy.

Shine! Don't let that feeling keep you in a shadow.

jealousy maybe causes due to a great deal of attention, interest, love and caring that you have for someone, if you moderate it, it becomes more sensible :)) esp if that someone is a boy, then it seems very urgent and vital  :))))