Give me a reason to have a CHILD

I have a friend who has no intention to have a child in the future if she get married. She likes children but she didn’t want to be messed up with annoying children. What about you guys? What’s your main reason to have or not to have children?

Well, yes, Ryo! Of course you are right…It’s great to provide orphans with parental care they have never got…But i think not every woman would love the child she has taken from the orphanage as much as she would love her own child, her flesh and blood.. But if you feel that you are able to give this affection to a stranger’s child and you know that bearing your own child can do harm to you then adopting is the best suggestion..

Friends,

Children are blessings of existence, they born through us but don't belong to us , they are property of existence, we are noone to give them birth.

Although science has given a little control over this dimenssion but it doesn't give us total liberty.They are extension of life.

It's a natural desire,there should be no why , I feel. 

Ryo,
In my definition, Motherhood instinct is the tendency of a woman to take care or to love a child (it’s not happened to her child only but also to other people’s children) more than anything. The first thing is to have a baby as the object of love. And then I think she’d love and take care her baby at the cost of her life. She’d love her baby more than herself. It’s also like she’d take after an abandoned or an orphanage baby just the same as she treats her own baby. Maybe smthing like that.

I want 3 children :))

then i will adopt a black one.. ( It is a dream now..But i really wanna make it true) :)

:D

So i will be 4 babies's mother :))

Sibel, I believe that in the future you’d be a good mother. Your kids would be the luckiest children on the world. Btw do you have a place for a grown up just like me?=)

Sibel, I believe that in the future you’d be a good mother. Your kids would be the luckiest children on the world. Btw do you have a place for a grown up just like me?=)