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How many women a Muslim can have.

aiman.h.kallaf

Saudi Arabia

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How many women a Muslim can have.

Islam have respect the for the women very much

A women in Islam is like jowl

As you care for your jowl and don't want any one to touch, hold or break you jowl.

We feel the same about are women

 

Women are happy with this the Idea of more than one wife. And they are not forced to.

If women got engaged and she asked the men not to gate marriage from another girl and he accepted then he well never marriage again from another women.

Even if he want to the government won't allow him because it's all writing in paper

Still how ever if a women accepted to be a second wife or third or even four that fine .

 

A man can only be married to four women not  more .

He most treats each wife equally to the anthers buys them houses each live in different rooms

Tack care of them all as they were the same person .

 

It's all up to the women to decide

 

Why Muslim marriage to more then one women

Islam tack care of every thing  women life kids boy … etc .

Some women can't have children , some cant get pregnant , some , are not able to got husband  , some and some . lot of reason that could face the women and force her not get marriage  

 

So a Muslim should help ethos women they like his sister and marriage them

They have the right to be happy

 

As well as girls more then the boys in population

becaause of no marriage girl make inlegal affair with guys

to protect girls respect our prophet said as to make 1 to 4 wife

 

 

 

This very shout topic I just wanted to right

 

 

 

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it's writing in English , take a few minute that may save you sole .

 

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Wish all the best .

 

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06:02 PM Feb 15 2009 |

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zeus2006

zeus2006Super Member!

Turkey

This is an old ketuba. It is in Istanbul Jews museum.

 

So, I want to say something to some of my friends who wrote something about this situation here. They want to show this is nice. They say there are some women who don't have abilty to get pregnant or not get husband they will be second,third or forth wife for a man… Woowwww. If you don't give freedom to get educations, vote, driver's license, working ofcourse they will stay at home and always need someone who care about them….

I don't understand Why these women do accept this rules in these kind of countries, why they don't protest these rules, why they don't want to change their life by this way…

10:25 PM Feb 17 2009 |

fabs1

fabs1

United Kingdom

Cool. Yup. that's it.

 

Thanks for showing it. (I'll repost the link: http://s51.radikal.ru/i133/0902/f4/99b453cb5745.jpg )

10:27 PM Feb 17 2009 |

gkisseberth

Germany

Anyone know why the limit is four? Why not 3 or 5? 

 

If a man can care for 5 women financially and emotionally, why couldn't he marry 5? 

 

Who make the decision about whether a man can marry the 2nd, 3rd and or 4th wives? Does he need a credit check, emotional evaluation, donation ?

10:53 PM Feb 17 2009 |

osesame

osesame

Egypt

"Anyone know why the limit is four? Why not 3 or 5? "

who create man who knows why…...and u don't believe in The creator first so what is the use in knowing such things

"Who make the decision about whether a man can marry the 2nd, 3rd and or 4th wives?"

every one know himself correctly if he can or not….it is not a simple matter so who did it is very few persentage

07:03 AM Feb 18 2009 |

kikam

kikam

Algeria

As far as i'm concerned, i know, as a muslim, that it's legal for a man to marry up to four women, but i know also that there's no law either in Islam or in Government laws that forces a woman to accept it. I think poligamy is a solution for some tough issues but not to get pleasure.

If i feel that i can't satisfy my hasband and he needs someone else i'de prefer to get divorced rather than seeing him with another woman, i'll never stand this idea,never..

our Propher Mohamed PBUH had several women for some political reasons, not for pleasure..

the man who seeks another woman even if he's happy with his wife is, for me, mentally ill.

 

10:10 AM Feb 18 2009 |

gkisseberth

Germany

"Anyone know why the limit is four? Why not 3 or 5? "

who create man who knows why…...and u don't believe in The creator first so what is the use in knowing such things

 

The use in knowing is in understanding, no? I've seen so many links and post here about learning about Islam, but now I should just have the attitude that since i don't believe in a god, i shouldn't worry about it. Great. 

 

In 1400 plus years there's been no comment from Islamic scholars, no speculation, no attempt to justify or explain this number 4? Everyone just accepts it because God said so?

01:29 PM Feb 18 2009 |