Should we allow sex....?

Friends,

Everyone needs sex…& some where everyone wants to go out of his partner….

either we go out with guilts or we repress ourself….why don't we allow each other to enjoy life…?

What are the fears…& what could be the after effects …

I would like to discuss in detail…..

in Vietnam, sex is to prove love. Love and to be love is sex that can be respect.

Nowadays in our society can change in this problem-sex. Boy and girl can live together without weding but we can not accept it as good value.

Friends,
I feel that lust is a stage of our life..As we mature to sex our physiology demands sex not love..& when we go through it,it is our awareness that guides us,we get two options either to stick at lust or we can grow to love ..again our awareness leads & we get two options either to stick at love or we may grow to our consciousness…
All depends upon the awareness..

No , i do not think its the right way , coz we are the human in this world , and we should be able to control our desire , any where sex is orginized in certain chanels !! oz of life no any thing else !

someonesomewhere,

Had it been so easy,we would have been blessed with a different world,see the hypocracy of humanity,see the morality.. Can you find any faithful friend…?,we have learnt all hypcracy through these words..

talking about sex is actually not a new topic. all people have known this long-long time ago. But we should remember to whom we may do that? doing it to illegal person is actually a problem. first, in the aspect of social. The one who does free sex will be ignored. he/she is claimed as siner. as a result, he/she isnot respected as common people do. second, sexual deceases such as aids, and the likes) will always accompany them. third, the  more importantly one, is belief. each belief views it as a sin if it is done out of marriage. so if we want to be secured from these aspects, there is no need to sell ourselves to irresponsible person.

Dear Safarudhein,

I hope you must have Tv in your home.. & if you have sister you would have watched tv together.. our films our magazines ..news papers.. what you will avoide… & by closing eyes can we go away from realities.. It is all our conditioning just.. children learn about sex wrongly because they are not taught at home…

yes ,I agree with you !if I have a wife ,I donot allow my wife with other man have sex.

   of course who I am!don't you?

Well it depends oon your age and your marital status. If you are under 15 years and single of course that is forbidden from the view of medecine and religion as well. But if you are 18 or 20 and single I think yu should have one and reliable parner whom you know well to make sex relations with such partner is all right. Changing partners every week or month is danger. ANyway we must know that exits virus wchich is very very danger that is HIV/AIDS

Dear justic,

You are right,we should keep one partner & I agree that she should be your wife,it's ok,it's the only best system possible… but if you are meditating  & honest to your feelings then question rises.. It's amatter of just honesty.. that we go on thinking about sex  & desire to have sex other than wife.. is it true or not.. We go on contineously thinking & thinking making our hell.. is it true or not…

& when we do not get our desire fullfilled then what happens.. please reply honestly… 

this is in reply to jusic's posting of page one..