Should we allow sex....?

Friends,

Everyone needs sex…& some where everyone wants to go out of his partner….

either we go out with guilts or we repress ourself….why don't we allow each other to enjoy life…?

What are the fears…& what could be the after effects …

I would like to discuss in detail…..

Dear Chenminivan,

Your question is very beautiful,should we call satisfaction love ? certainly we should not think in this way. It looks very arduous to feel that satisfaction is love.I feel that love doesn't exist at all,all that exist one's hungerness & one's concern is to quench the thirst,it may be love or something else,I feel first we try to find it in sex,when we don't get it it sex… we try love… & when even love fails we try to find it in soul.. The word 'love' has so many layers… we can't conclude the meaning of word love.. It is multi dimenssional so.certainly we shouldn't call it love,but I don't any other word to express my gratitude but to call it 'soul mate ' is certainly a better expression.

Thanks

Dear chenminivan,I feel the majority of humanity is conservative,all religions are doing only one duty of  making the humanity just sinners,in all the religions sex has widely been condemned,marriage is techniqe to controll the humanity by making it sinners & then churches are required to forgive the sinners & making the man sad so as to keep the man usefull for society,to keep him working & let the priests happy,that's why all religions have created 'marriage codes',what religion has the concrn , if two persons decides to live in togeterness .

We have only one job to do in our life,supress the sex & keep water in the mouth & say 'we are not animals,& live sad life & trying to free our self from 'birth & death circle' & some day God will appear to forgive all of us.

this is reall part of our life , but we must do it in good method

 we can choice agood partener ,and got married in regular style save healthy

Dear kjawala,

We can either use heart or mind ,while choosing. If we choose to go through mind ,certainly it is looks easy & more comfotable but looses all it's life,How can alive & dead simultaneously,I feel the best way is understand all the matter & be aware of what we are doing..all that is happenning,and not allow the sadness to enter in life,it's difficult because we are not matured fully yet ..

noooooooo

hay gurl howz u?

why do u go out  to make sex?

u can make it with ur wife at home..

The way I see it.. If you wanna have another sex partner, leave the older one. Having two partners, being unfaithful.. THAT is what is wrong. If we were animals, we wouldn't be attached to anyone in the first place, so we wouldn't decieve anyone.

p.s… i didnt mean that you have to leave the one with more age hahahaha what i meant to say is that you should leave the "old partner" for a "new partner" but without being unfaithful to him/her