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That was exactly my piont, Ola. People have different priorities. But other people’s priority don’t necessarily have to be ours. If we see that a person is not our “light” why should we follow them?

Trust, once shattered can’t be renewed in its uniqueness once again, we can try to trust again, but this time with doubts and uneasiness, and never bitterness go. And, any kind of relationship is built on trust.

I believe, most of comments on the topic were derived out of people’s life experience, probably main life experience, so were mine.

Written in a book:

 “I’m afraid of who has not made any mistakes yet, and avoid of who has made mistakes twice or more, but I rely on someone who has made a mistake just for one time”

Strong words to show worth of giving a second chance, for me, a deliberate mistake is actually annoying and unforgivable, such as KILLING. killing trust, killing honesty, killing love,…if one of my close friends becomes killer in such way, I CAN forgive him/her BUT NOT easily or soon, probably it takes long time for me to convince myself to forgive and get trust back, I know if I can’t forgive someone, I myself suffer from it most of time, but the reality is which I said.

I will be assertive first by addressing  the problem with my friend and discuss with him what I did not like before giving the second chance. Somebody might hurt you without knowing even the extent of his action. validation of what is behind an act can make a difference. Now if  somebody keep hurting you, your best bet is to turn the page

I think I am glade to give people the  second chance after  they make a mistake, but it should depends on the situation. If that people always make the same mistake and doesn’t  correct it, I think i will consider giving that people another shot or not.

A few weeks ago, I had a training seminar to testify employee’s job performance skills. Even though I gave enough time to prepare the presentation, she didn’t understand about products in two months. I disappointed about her skills and attitude. I permitted second chance to master her product knowledge skills. Of course, It’s hard to train employees up to adequate level in a short time. However, if employee has no passion to achieve his or her goal. It is nothing to give another chances. 

if a person hurts me a lot , i will see whether she is purposeful or accidental, most of times,i ‘d like to think that they did not to mean to do that , i will treat her well, i believe she can feel my warmness and friendness, so she will be good to me too.

I agree Erise on the second nature. We all have our different personalities, attitudes, beliefs, type of characters. And because of the people’s differences, we think sometimes somebody’s behaviou is obnoxious, rude, not polite. But that person just didn’t mean to hurt you. That’s what he/she’s. That’s his nature and it’s normal to him. So why not accept, to understand, to cooperate rather than drift apart.

  The light of nature – not to notice the bad things, has got its own charm!  

Most of the comments are positive, EB is a good environment to live in… hehe

In a few words: life itself gives us many chances, so how about us?

Who didn’t break up with someone or screw up towards anything ?!

You know High School is a ground for loads of emotions(high and mixed emotions), once I broke up with a friend-you may say the issue is sure silly, but no-it took awhile, after that I and she has occurred it. The beauty thing here that we released what we mean to each other, the value of each other and how strong is our relation!!

It’s our nature by and large to give a shot, we were born pure but the erosion factors have affected on us…..LOLs.

Sometimes I wish if someone sells me an opportunity, who will sell(rin rin, the auction opened)

I’m a person who give chances regardless of the situations. However, if a person repeats the same fault again and again purposely then I write him/her off entirely.

great lesson

yes we should give many chances in friendships.

hmmmm give it to ur self

Everyone deserves a second chance why not, but that should be the last chance, shouldn’t?

We shouldn’t confuse forgiveness with a second chance.

Personally I don’t believe in a second chance because I’m strongly convinced that people’s behaviour is developed out of their nature.

If someone treats us badly there is no point in holding a grudge but it’s sure better go separate ways in order to avoid getting burned again.

Probably sounding very critical like the author of these verses:

Mess,I didn,t mean that it,s normal to live with a person who cheat or beat a woman.No,I,m against such relations,and it,s really better to stay alone.

But if you won,t give a second chance in needed time ,you,ll never know were you right or wrong,coz just a second shot can finally define it.

I think that everyone deserves second chance. They say: it is better to regret what you’ve done than what you have not done and I think this is true ( at least in  case of relationship).  I can hold a grudge but very short time and sometimes I’m mad at myself for that. I agree with Olivine-we can give second chance but if someone does the same mistake over and over it means that he doesn’t deserve because he doesn’t care about us.

I don’t know what does someone have to do to not get from me a second chance. It depends on many things. There’s no a rule.

I believe in second chances.As Mason says,everyone makes mistakes.There is no perfect person in this world.

There must be grudges between friends.I believe that if the friendship is true and deep,one will forgive the other one who make mistakes and gives him/her second even third chances.

I will give my real friend second chances for sure,although he/she makes bad things to me.But it is hard to definite “true friend”.If I make mistakes one day whether he/she will forgive me like I did.

So many violences occurs in the society everyday,such as robbery,theft and fighting and so on.Everyone shouldn’t condone crimes and please say “no” to those villains.I still remember that bastard who stole my telephone on the way to school when I was in Grade 2.If I could catch him at that time,I would beat him and call the police at once for sure.

We all make mistakes cuz nobody is perfect . so we might give a second chance.

  BUt if that person secrew up again , here it depends on how much you like that person and the kind of relationship  to be able to give him a third chance or leave him . 

i try not to hold the grudge. But i don’t wanna deal anymore with that person if s/he keep doing same mistakes again and again for let’s say.. more than 3 or 5 times. that way, i can keep my self away from planting unecessary hatred.

Anyway it’s sucks to forgive person many times, that they keep repeat it again and again. well not to be mean, but that’s how it feels