Should we allow sex....?

Friends,

Everyone needs sex…& some where everyone wants to go out of his partner….

either we go out with guilts or we repress ourself….why don't we allow each other to enjoy life…?

What are the fears…& what could be the after effects …

I would like to discuss in detail…..

you can have sex out of merage, but  to be sure of preventing aids from you, and  not harm your partner. having  sex with others not meaning  betray of your wife. 

lover is the most important.

Make love to the person you loved most..for you will never regret after doing it.

Chinese girls do more care about love than sex. It's our tradition. We have 5000 long history so that we can't easily change the way we're thinking!

but now the younger generation in China has changed their view about sex. Some of them accepted it just like the westen people.

we're all unique,we're young and we all have choice to do what we love to. Being yourself is the most important thing.

Well …hellooooo!!!!  of course  sex is a part of our life..but it does not mean that you have to abuse it or over do it by having sex to different people…when you need and like it. Sex should be to the right person and in the right place. You can't just have sex infront of public. Have you heard of a place where wife and husband swapping is common? That is very true..people are very liberated…morality is no longer observed.

Do you know that we are also called an animal?  But we are the highest form of animal here on earth..thats why we are called human to separate us from them.  Coz we have the shame…we can reason out…but animals could not..they have no shame ..so wherever they feel like it they do it even in front of you…doesn't care at all.

In our daily life, there are so many people who are not faithful to their partner and they are always meeting each others'need. It is a bad penomenon in our society. I hope it will not influent the teenagers. The adults should control themselves in front of the kids.

i think we should not hide our sexual feelings….MORE WE DO …MORE HAPPY WE'LL BE

OTHERWISE  WE MAY GO INTO DEPRESSION 

Dear Nancy,

I feel that we go for sex not because love but to search love & the definiation of love is very vast,I feel love & trust are the products of satisfaction of sex that we get through our partner,wheather we know it or not…higher the satisfaction makes higher trust…our behaviour during sex leads us to satisfaction…

You know if woman don't  achieve orgasm man feels frustrated & feels very weak & disgraced…if woman achives orgasm he feels satisfied & he feels good of his life…This is the point upon which whole joy of life depends. 

Dear sweet10hearts,

From where you had the idea that man is animal of highest quality…do you know when we compare our qualities…for faithfulness we look towrds dog.. for strength we look toward elephant,for mischiviousness…monkeys & so on,who gave us the certificate that man is highest…. have don't see the fall of qualities…have you ever heard an rape in the whole animal kingdom….have you ever heard an animal killing millions of animals… human has to grow yet…when every human shall be treated as humans & every animal will get love & respect from human….

What is shame…we should feel ashamed of that female children of 6-8 years age group are sexually exploitted upon our earth…we don't feel ashamed of it…where our shame goes…if we don't have sex in public it not due to shame it is due to our guilt…we feel that we are doing something wrong…a scene of kiss is  called vulgar but not a man killing the other…

Dear devindernaqpal,

You mean for you.. you do sex not for love?  that means you do it just for lust….for your physical desires only? Is sex the first priority in our life? Maybe you are right…that men feel weak or ashame if their woman did not reach the climax…but being expert in sex will make you a better man? I guess not…even if you are a good lover..but you are not a  responsible person..i don't think that will be enough. 

And about those comparison you have given about human from animals..well ..its just being compared…simply being alike…we don't heard any rape case from animals coz they can't  voice out…and same thing for killing each other..don't you know they kill each other and made them for food? Those people who do things like what you have innumerated..are called animals ..their animal instinct is greater than human instinct…well this is just my opinion…whether you agree or not i don't mind …i just want to share my ideas…not to have a fight.