Should we allow sex....?

Friends,

Everyone needs sex…& some where everyone wants to go out of his partner….

either we go out with guilts or we repress ourself….why don't we allow each other to enjoy life…?

What are the fears…& what could be the after effects …

I would like to discuss in detail…..

I like wolf ,because they are honest !

Dear NabliSh,

Every religion interferes man's sexual life.. every religion had made codes of conduct,not allowing human having more than one contact.Evrey human has desires & dreams other than his marriage partner.. The man is the main cotolling power so in order to fulfill his needs he had develloped prostitution class,in order to hide his face,looking good in other's eyes & enjoying his dreams & desires.. most of the white clothed people…. without any discrimination of religion visits prostitutes without asking there religion…

The life religion depends upon the guilt of human…every religion knows the psychology of human … & by prohibting man's sexual uses ,it controlls the lifes ..all men have desires to see other women  & feeling it bad too.. he committs sins & there is relgion to forgive or punish his deeds.. this way it controlls human minds…it is common of all religions..

All diseases are produce of unnatural ways of humanity.. & we feel,we need just sucurity to live life but not our cosciousness…honesty..joyfullness..totallity

Dear chinese friend… man is not allowed to be honest just by idea that man is not a common animal…He superior of all the animals… so he should not live like animals..such ego helps the religion to controll man  

this is the rule in the human socialty.we must obey it, so,this is the most differnent from animals.we can keep our control .and hold back oursilves sexuality,never have sex with everything as animals.

i'm a chinese girl ,welcome to china .Between the human and the human is must have the exchange

come on

we are humans not animals

freedom does not mean having sex like animals without respect to the husbands/ wives

the good socity starts from good family

and good family can not come from a seprate husband n wife

I think the most possible reason is the social environment where somebody lives.  A guy can be influenced by his living environmet.Such as somedody who lives in the small village would watch the sex video is late ,so his thought would be conservative. It is just a small example ,and it is not restricted in that kind moves.

But if somebody lives in a modern city,he (she) may be fashion and will accept the new idea easily!

It is my opinion.

Not before marriage.Just chill

Not before marriage.Just chill

 ye,it'really a very complicated question. Sometimes  it' s contracted. I  mean ,what  is  love ? Is love just satisfaction  or  happy ?  I don't think so. Maybe love is not so pure but  it  is  really  amazing. if you met one  who  make you feel satisfied  then you  called  it's  love . so  what is the right  man or woman ?

some place in  the world  is  conservative ,just as china ,but I think  it's reasonable  to  some degree.people'desire is endless, especially in sex.  but don't you  think we can control  ourselves  sometimes .there  are  so  much  fun  in  some  other  areas .for  everyone 's  information, how  do  you  feel  when you know  your  lover  had  sex  with  some  else ? If it's  miserable .how come  we  still do it  to hurt  the  one  we  love ?