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Sex before marriage...

yana011

yana011

Philippines

Society nowadays accept the premarital sex. But what are cause and effect doing it before marriage?...

04:21 AM Dec 05 2007 |

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sweet10hearts

Philippines

Whoa!!! you are right there yana..but just wanna add few things…that those children raised in a single parenthood that are prone to sexual abuse, crime, or poor health , mostly are those who are in the lower income family..their environment or sorrounding has affected them…the place where they live. And  those who are born in a nice place and an average  life…are not much a problem. 

Pre_marital sex is now common..and yes its their choice…just hope that those people who are doing that or wanna do that… know what will be the outcome..and be sure that in doing so..whatever happens..you are responsible for your own action…you know what to do… not to hide or escape from it…but to face it….answer is not by making another mistakes.

08:10 AM Dec 11 2007 |

yana011

yana011

Philippines

yeah.. you hit what I meant nans.. well, I'm not either generalizing the children who raised by single parenthood..but majority of them you're right that living below income..It's so pathetic for them that people do this act without minding the consequences they might encountered. Well, its a matter of choice again..we cannot condemned nor forsake them.. thats their own life.. 

09:46 AM Dec 11 2007 |

rayprasun

India

Hi,

'm Ray Prasun.

My topic is about 'SEX B4 MARRIAGE'.

And 'll try to describe the whole cause & result of it once.It might be long…

Ok.

See, the literary meaning of sex is: The instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another.

This attraction might be arouse for love or any other thinking.

So this is only the cause of sex.

Now sex before marriage depends only on both the sex. There should not be any others thinking.

Now literary meaning of marriage is: The social institution under which a man and woman establish their decision to live as husband and wife by legal commitments, religious ceremonies, etc.

Fornication, is a term which refers to consensual sexual intercourse  between two persons not married to each other.

In the common law countries (England, USA, Canada, Australia, etc.), the Courts were never interested in punishing subjects for purely private moral deviations – even incest – although sodomy was an exception.

But in case of other countries it is still under punishment.

Yeah.

The results are: might be they 'll happy or, might not be.

Might be it causes them to put forward for marriage( a long term) or, to keep apart.

Yeah, for middle(poor) people the outcome might be create problem.

In contrast, Adultery is consensual sex where one or both of the partners are married to someone else.

Hope you get the result of your topic.

To me, To-a-t, Sex before marriage is not a sin, not at all jolly. It's only the mindsper between the two sex.

Take care.

BYE.

10:53 AM Dec 11 2007 |

mo0

mo0

United Kingdom

sex is part of our lives, I couldn't see anything wrong with making a love

02:34 PM Dec 11 2007 |

yana011

yana011

Philippines

Ray prasum,

thank you for the long information you had share on this topic.. well its just a matter of choice as I said nothing saying bad nor good.. its very difficult to judge other on their deeds. well good luck to you

03:11 PM Dec 11 2007 |

kokobeauty

kokobeauty

Iran, Islamic Republic Of

I am a psychologist and I belive that habits which are made before marrige such as sex are very enjoyable .when someone have a sex before marrige he/she seldom leave the habit and cannot avoide of sex with some one else after marrige.

04:01 PM Dec 11 2007 |

yana011

yana011

Philippines

well, As I've mentioned kana…I'm not generalizing all children who raised in single parenthood are prone to that kins of scenario.

it's a  matter of choice between couple/lovers to do it out of wedlock. in some cases sex before marriage in MINORS, had a experience of having unwanted pregnancy..so the cause will be bad if they cant do their responsibility. 

01:19 AM Dec 12 2007 |

devindernagpal

India

Frinds,

We are discussing here ,the effects of sex before marriage…

I feel marriage should not be planned…it should evolve out of the respect ,love,gratitude that comes out of you for your partner,during sex….

We don't know the phenomina of existential marriage… when human was not so develloped..couples were formed purely on the satisfaction that came out during sex…

Really there are chances of falling of gap between two partners…

02:52 AM Dec 12 2007 |

rayprasun

India

Thank you first of all for reply positively.

Anyway,

Now can you tell me your opinion on my topic 'LIFE AND LUCK'?

What do you think?

Can any people choose any 1 of them without other?

what do you prefer???

LIFE through LUCK or, LUCK through LIFE!!!

Take care.

BYE

01:30 PM Dec 12 2007 |

sweet10hearts

Philippines

Yeah kana me too..i did not say all..i said mostly..or ok if what you want   "in some cases" it happened. Sorry if i used the wrong word for that.

02:21 AM Dec 13 2007 |